If your wife was friends with a guy she’s had sex with would it bother you?

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Kurαȷ · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't even go on a date with someone whose past romantic or sexual partners remain in their life.
Or even just the people who expressed interest in them at some point, even if it was unrequited.

I don't understand why anyone would want to remain in contact with people who they are attracted to/are attracted to them, and I frankly don't care to find out.

Kabluie · Accepted Answer

Nah, we might have already had a agreement to have an open marriage kind of thing. But regardless I'll always be friends with many I had sex with, so why should it be any different for them?

qtpiee · Accepted Answer

If you trust your wife there is nothing to worry about. A break up doesn’t always have to end in hate

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I don't want my partner having contact with any of her past sexual partners, unless they have a child together.

summiter · Answer

As long as I trust her and she is very honest with me then I'd be ok with it.

wankiam · Answer

no...

boggboss · Answer

Yeah it would wish it wouldn't but I feel like it would be a issue

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Is the sky blue?

boombastik · Answer

Yes and no... depends who it is and what kinda vibe I got from them. If I sense something shady is going on then hell no! Keep it moving!

s2firestar · Answer

Yeah, it would. And almost got into such a situation with an exgf trying to get back to me... told her to fuck off in the end. Was the good call.

dudeinohio · Answer

Yes it would

jahaims · Answer

Obviously

Wewladdy · Answer

Obviously.

Twalli · Answer

Not really

shanshu · Answer

Ofcourse, I'd still trust her but doesn't mean I worry because if she hs had sex with him it means she was attracted to him and meaning she still does, would I be afraid something might happen sure