I think it depends on how old you are. I've heard that older folks don't need that much sex anymore. They even sleep on different beds.
How do you define bad sex?
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Hadi9393
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For me, it's not about good sex and bad sex. It's about satisfaction. It's about you. Both of you. Do you feel the good when having sex or not. If not, find the reason. Don't blame each other. Find the solution. Then, and only then... I don't know about you guys. But this is my opinion. It's my answer to your question
Yourman555
+1 y
Define older 🤣
boggbossMaster
+1 y
As with any aspect off a relationship that makes u unhappy if not fix can be provided then yes
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slatybMaster
+1 y
Absolutely. We date to find a compatible partner. When we determine that someone is incompatible, we stop seeing them. People don't have a right to our time as long as they don't misbehave.
What's the alternative? A lifetime of frustration? No thanks.
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PeterAyreXper 5
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If you want better sex and that's important for you. Then go for it. Let's face it, this will grind on you. There are people for whom it is a must that their partner cooks great food so when they eat they get lots of dopamine. They might watch a lot of programs with one person cooking lovely food for their date. It might be culture. They might use that as a yardstick for marital success, or how much they are cared about in a relationship. People do this with money and sex. Each to their own.
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Finchie40Master
+1 y
Depends , if they are only making it about themselves and don’t care that their partner didn’t get off then yes dump them , but if they apologize and say they will do better and want to please you then you should give them another chance , sex only gets better with frequency , it’s harder for most guys to control busting a nut over girls getting an orgasm in most cases, why frequency is important, when a girl has sex , then makes her man wait weeks to have sex again he is more likely to bust a nut fast cuz he has been craving it for so long , so if you had sex and it was horrible the first time around bang him again the next day and see if he gets better , if he doesn’t then kick him to the curb lol , Why I always make it about the girl when I have sex , I want her satisfied so she comes back for more
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CitizenkirkGuru
+1 y
I think bad sex leaves room for discussion, research, and an appointment with your urologist and gynecologist.
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Titli1995Xper 6
+1 y
Sex is one of the strong pillar of a healthy relationship. If one of the pillar got week there will be a chance of end or break that.
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Karz101Xper 1
+1 y
If you love them speck to them just say we should add some spice try get him/her to try something different teach and help them without hurting there feelings if you love them it’s worth a try at least ❤️
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0112358Master
+1 y
Challenges, no, not if it's a good relationship otherwise.
Lack of interest, unwillingness to try to please each other, unwilling to work on problems - definitely.
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chocolatepenguin1Xper 4
+1 y
No ofc it is not lol. Imagine people who are married for years and years! Just you have to be passionate and creative. Spend some time together and really connect. A relationship is not about sex mainly just spending time with someone you love 💙
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Asker
+1 y
We've been together for four years..
chocolatepenguin1
+1 y
Spice it up lol. There is no point on throwing in the towel that far into a relationship
Asker
+1 y
I try
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chocolatepenguin1
+1 y
I know it is hard but if you want to dm we you can so we can speak more :)
TwinrovaExplorer
+1 y
Nope. It is impossible to both say that you love the person you're in a relationship with, while also holding the opinion that the relationship is worth ending over the quality of sex. If you really love someone, you would sacrifice a great deal for them; Hell, most people would probably die for their loved ones. Think of a mother sacrificing for their kids, or a man leaping into danger to save his wife. If we can agree that love entails a willingness to sacrifice a great deal for those we care about, then you can't say that you love someone, but are unwilling to sacrifice a more enjoyable sex life to be with them.
Side note: if you don't agree with the premise that love denotes a willingness to sacrifice for your loved ones, then I don't know what you're talking about. I don't think you've ever been in love, if that is the case.
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Ripper_EMaster
+1 y
For some. Not for me.
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HawkPerceptionYoda
+1 y
Bad sex isn't the problem in my opinion. The desire to want to improve and be open minded to trying things in bed is much more important. If a girl is bad at sex, that's completely fine if she's willing to take tips and advice. Communication is key in any relationship. Tell your partner what would help get you off or whatever kinks you may have. If they truly are willing to do stuff with you, it can be a truly bonding experience.
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TheSpaceGnomeGuru
+1 y
Depends on why it's bad. Most people start out bad at sex, its a practice thing. That said, if its bad do to lack of attraction, then yeah thats a doomed relationship if the people in want sex.
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Sam_The_SavageYoda
+1 y
I thought only love matters in relationship.
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hela1110Xper 5
+1 y
Absolutely not
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KatherineJEditor
+1 y
No, because good sex comes from communicating what we want. Just like the rest of the relationship requires communication.
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Asker
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Sometimes communication doesn't even fix the issue.
KatherineJ
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Then that brings up the next question: How is the rest of the relationship? How important is good sex to those involved?
TaureanBull81Guru
+1 y
Sex can improve in a relationship in the long run however if you're still not feeling sexually satisfied or you're not sexually compatible then it's best to end things before pursuing anything further.
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RHK36Yoda
+1 y
If it's not addressed, yes it can be.
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Ironic_MethodYoda
+1 y
Absolutely. But I also believe that it can be remedied in most cases.
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25 78I think it depends on how old you are. I've heard that older folks don't need that much sex anymore. They even sleep on different beds.
How do you define bad sex?
For me, it's not about good sex and bad sex. It's about satisfaction. It's about you. Both of you. Do you feel the good when having sex or not. If not, find the reason. Don't blame each other. Find the solution. Then, and only then... I don't know about you guys. But this is my opinion. It's my answer to your question
Define older 🤣
As with any aspect off a relationship that makes u unhappy if not fix can be provided then yes
Absolutely. We date to find a compatible partner. When we determine that someone is incompatible, we stop seeing them. People don't have a right to our time as long as they don't misbehave.
What's the alternative? A lifetime of frustration? No thanks.
If you want better sex and that's important for you. Then go for it. Let's face it, this will grind on you. There are people for whom it is a must that their partner cooks great food so when they eat they get lots of dopamine. They might watch a lot of programs with one person cooking lovely food for their date. It might be culture. They might use that as a yardstick for marital success, or how much they are cared about in a relationship. People do this with money and sex. Each to their own.
Depends , if they are only making it about themselves and don’t care that their partner didn’t get off then yes dump them , but if they apologize and say they will do better and want to please you then you should give them another chance , sex only gets better with frequency , it’s harder for most guys to control busting a nut over girls getting an orgasm in most cases, why frequency is important, when a girl has sex , then makes her man wait weeks to have sex again he is more likely to bust a nut fast cuz he has been craving it for so long , so if you had sex and it was horrible the first time around bang him again the next day and see if he gets better , if he doesn’t then kick him to the curb lol , Why I always make it about the girl when I have sex , I want her satisfied so she comes back for more
I think bad sex leaves room for discussion, research, and an appointment with your urologist and gynecologist.
Sex is one of the strong pillar of a healthy relationship. If one of the pillar got week there will be a chance of end or break that.
If you love them speck to them just say we should add some spice try get him/her to try something different teach and help them without hurting there feelings if you love them it’s worth a try at least ❤️
Challenges, no, not if it's a good relationship otherwise.
Lack of interest, unwillingness to try to please each other, unwilling to work on problems - definitely.
No ofc it is not lol. Imagine people who are married for years and years! Just you have to be passionate and creative. Spend some time together and really connect. A relationship is not about sex mainly just spending time with someone you love 💙
We've been together for four years..
Spice it up lol. There is no point on throwing in the towel that far into a relationship
I try
I know it is hard but if you want to dm we you can so we can speak more :)
Nope. It is impossible to both say that you love the person you're in a relationship with, while also holding the opinion that the relationship is worth ending over the quality of sex. If you really love someone, you would sacrifice a great deal for them; Hell, most people would probably die for their loved ones. Think of a mother sacrificing for their kids, or a man leaping into danger to save his wife. If we can agree that love entails a willingness to sacrifice a great deal for those we care about, then you can't say that you love someone, but are unwilling to sacrifice a more enjoyable sex life to be with them.
Side note: if you don't agree with the premise that love denotes a willingness to sacrifice for your loved ones, then I don't know what you're talking about. I don't think you've ever been in love, if that is the case.
For some. Not for me.
Bad sex isn't the problem in my opinion. The desire to want to improve and be open minded to trying things in bed is much more important. If a girl is bad at sex, that's completely fine if she's willing to take tips and advice. Communication is key in any relationship. Tell your partner what would help get you off or whatever kinks you may have. If they truly are willing to do stuff with you, it can be a truly bonding experience.
Depends on why it's bad.
Most people start out bad at sex, its a practice thing.
That said, if its bad do to lack of attraction, then yeah thats a doomed relationship if the people in want sex.
I thought only love matters in relationship.
Absolutely not
No, because good sex comes from communicating what we want. Just like the rest of the relationship requires communication.
Sometimes communication doesn't even fix the issue.
Then that brings up the next question: How is the rest of the relationship? How important is good sex to those involved?
Sex can improve in a relationship in the long run however if you're still not feeling sexually satisfied or you're not sexually compatible then it's best to end things before pursuing anything further.
If it's not addressed, yes it can be.
Absolutely. But I also believe that it can be remedied in most cases.