Is giving blowjob required before sex?

Sorry if dumb question I just started having sex when I moved from China and I thought I always give blowjob so the guy is ready to have sex. I do really enjoy the feeling of giving blowjob and the happiness it gives men but just curious!
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  • It's an option - part of foreplay - but it is absolutely not required. Porn makes it look like a prerequisite, but that's bullshit.

    If she is ready to fuck, I'm totally ready to give her what she needs. Hell, I even love the occasional, spontaneous, quicky fuck when we wake up in the morning with her ass spooned up against me. Or bend her over a piece of furniture, lift her skirt, pull down her panties, and drill her.

    • Your wife sounds lucky!

    • We get along well. :-) Lots of times, a BJ is a stand alone thing. It's wonderful when I women kneels and pleasures her man just to get him off, and not as a preamble for sex.

    • I like the bj position too!

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  • First, a blowjob IS sex - oral sex.

    There is no "law" that requires a blowjob. Some guys require it. You can go along with that or tell them to fuck off! Since you enjoy giving them, then have fun doing that. Almost all guys will love it! And the guys will also love such a lovely gal giving it!

    • Thank you!

    • Thank you for MHGuy.

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  • It's nice. But not required. But basically it sounds like it works the same way in China. No guy is going to be surprised if you go to give him a blowjob before sex. This seems to be the same as what you're used to. It's not a dumb question. 🙂

  • do you want blowjobs to be required before sex? if that's your personal style and you like to give blowjobs nothing wrong with that... all guys love blowjobs but it's really 50/50 if they prefer blowjobs... if your good men love the blowjob better... i think do what you feel and want to give... i assume y ou love to give blowjobs and that's fine... i think girls like giving blowjobs more than guys like getting them... if that makes sense.

  • Nothing involving sex is required! It is however somewhat common especially in a newer relationship to suck his cock as part of the foreplay.

  • I have always believed that most men before sex love the look in my eyes, the kind of look that says, I'm yours if you want me, BJ can be anytime

  • A penis isn’t even required for sex.

    • Well, actually just a good tongue and lips is necessary

    • @Bricealan Not strictly necessary either. You can have great sex with a bag over their head, or a gag in their mouth the whole time. But to answer the OPs question with some actual detail. Foreplay is an important part of good sex. Something to get that anticipation that heightens the whole experience. You know, get the juices flowing and the hard bits hard. Oral sex is a common way to do it, sure. But far from the only one.

  • No, I never liked blow jobs.

  • I don't think it's required, but it's a nice option. Why did you start having sex when you moved?

  • No, it is not but I love giving one as a foreplay to heat the mood up. Bj turns me on too not only my man.

  • Not really.

  • It is your body and your choice not his. It is not required... sometimes I just like to get naked and enjoy sex. Otherwise some oral for her and me can be fun before sex. There is no right or wrong... it is up to you. If you give him a bj make sure he returns the favor every time!

  • Foreplay is a good thing usually. Men usually come out of the gate primed though. It's one of their gifts :T

    If foreplay would help anyone it'd be us.

  • I wouldn't say it is at all…

  • It is not.

    • Actually, the laws vary from state to state.

    • @MuskratLove... lmao

    • My deceased sister posted on here about a guy who was arrested for... um... munching on a beaver. The beaver in question belonged to his wife. I think that 17 states still have sodomy laws on the books, but they don't actively enforce the law. And the definition of sodomy is a sexual act that doesn't make babies. (true story) So the cops got a search warrant to raid a crack house. But someone fucked up the address, so they broke down the door of the wrong house. So in order to save face, the moronic site commander arrested the hubby. (talk about a victimless crime) The judge threw it out, because they had no warrant to search the wrong house. I heard about this from an ex boss, who was a retired cop. I think it happened in Texas. If I was the site commander, I would have apologized 700 times, and moved mountains to get a carpenter out to fix the damage. But this dumb fuck arrested the guy. I have no proof of this, but I think the site commander was a highly respected GAG member. I hope the city got their arse sued.

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  • It’s been normalized but no, not required

  • Never required always appreciated.

  • It is totally a personal choice. Some girls aren't into it, but they can't be mad, if the guy won't go out with her, if it is a preference of his.

  • If course... it is in the manual.

  • Main reason I think of is making certain the guy has a full, hard erection. Then again, the woman partner deserves to have her pussy eaten, and that usually comes first on a first sexual occasion, at least as far as I'm concerned, to get her wet and ready also.

    • Yes that is why I do it and even spit on it and hanjob before putting it inside me

  • Sexuality is voluntary and not "required". Yes, we enjoy fellatio prior to intercourse but you have to decide if you should do it. Why? If he has become hard and wet through hand play and ready to enter you, fellatio before PIV is going to shorten his time prior to orgasm and not give you time to enjoy it. He may come too fast. But if age or distraction is causing him not to become fully hard and ready to enter you, adding fellatio can accomplish that. So what I am saying is that you are actually "the boss" in sex since you can decide how to best make him happy and make yourself happy too.

  • Of course not. You should do it if you want to do it yourself or want to please your partner who enjoys it.

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