It's not weird at all. It's wise. It should be standard practice.
Simply ask if he would be willing to go with you to get the both of you tested. If he protests, he's doesn't care about you.
I had a girl ask me to do that before she would engage in sex. I willingly agreed. I actually admired that fact that she took care of her body and maintained good health. Plus, it indicated that she didn't go around having sex with just anybody.
I highly recommend that you do this with any new partner. The test is easy and instantaneous.
If you plan to more than just blow jobs, get on the pill.
Don't rely on condoms. They aren't 100% effective and they detract from the sexual experience. They prevent either of you from feeling skin against skin. Condom are lame.
If you are assured that your partner is clean, you can experience unbridled sex without concern.
I am definitely planning on using B. C. Probably IUD or implant
The question about exclusivity in your update is a good one. I wouldn't bother asking someone to get tested if I didn't know them well enough to think they wanted to be in an exclusive relationship. I'd want to be as certain of that as possible. Although there is no guarantee, it's possible to assess people fairly accurately. All my relationships with girlfriends were monogamous. I can't be 1000% certain that none never cheated, but I can't be 100% certain that there isn't a lost world in the center of the Earth, either. I knew those girls well enough to be certain who they were.
HOW is preserving YOUR health & wellbeing "weird"?
But be prepared to ALSO get tested for HIS peace-of-mind!
My present wife & myself are BOTH divorcee 're-treads" and we BOTH got tested.
Been absolutely horny & faithful since.
I am definitely going to get tested
You can't 'love' anyone else if you DON'T first pragmatically love YOUURSELF <3 Good for you!
Absolutely not. Get tested. Your health is more important than his ego.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!No, it's not weird. Normally the risk acquiring an STD through oral sex is quite low, but it is possible if you have sores (say canker sores) or cuts in your mouth. To make it easier for him to agree to be tested, I suggest that you also offer to be tested.
Oh of course both of us getting tested. I read the following on the NHS website: “Oral sex is the stimulation of the genitals using the mouth and tongue. It is one of the ways that sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are most frequently passed on.” The last sentence is the reason why I am careful when it comes to oral sex.
Not at all, even virgins should get tested.
it’s amazing how various things can spread
It is not weird at all and good for you for asking for it. If he wants sex or bjs and some great orgasms then why would he not want to be tested? Until then stick with giving him handjobs... guys love them!!!
No, it's normal. If he thinks it's weird them he's not old enough.
It's not weird. It's smart.
When you are ready for wet intimacy, make a date, get tested at a storefront and later celebrate good results.
It’s a great idea. One in five people in the US have an STI.
no , More people should probably ask.
It is unlikely to get infections by oral sex, as most infections that can get passed that way are visible beforehand.
Yet you lose nothing by getting tested. If you asked me to do such thing, I would have no problem as long as you did the same thing.
You should
When I do they get pissed
No, it's being safe. If he's against it, is this someone you should be getting into bed with?
the usual shit tests every woman gives her beta bucks white knight. once the man of her irrational standards shows up she fucks him dry, no protection, no tests, no bullshit and even gives birth to his child. Another happy single mother.
You have been hurt by women haven’t you? I have seen your comments before. You are often extremely negative about women with your “white knight” bs. Sure, some women are shitty people just like some guys are shitty people but there are enough decent women and men on this earth. Stop being so negative. Trust me, you are only hurting yourself with all this negativity. No hate by the way 🍀
yeah ok. exactly the reply every woman would give. "who hurt you" and all this dumb castration language. Im not saying that some women are shitty people. I say that ALL women are shitty people. Getting into a relationship means by default getting involved in an endless series of shit tests. And let's not talk about the legal slavery of men known as marriage.
Don’t tar with the same brush. There is no such thing as ‘all women are ….’ because we are all different. You are just too hurt, angry and even toxic to see it. And don’t worry with that attitude you will never be in a relationship.
Are you going to get tested, too?
Yes of course
I’d be taken aback, tbh. But some guys put up with that stuff.
You wouldn’t put up with it?
Not unless he's a virgin. If he's a virgin he's clean
No. Quite smart in fact
It is not weird to be tested for STD'S During a Pandemic
NOT weird or prudish. It's SMART!
Nothing wrong with that
Its not weird at all and honestly should be normalize, but people are impatient and feel offended like they were accused of having an STD or STI
If there is no marriage, it is good to have prior knowledge of sexual health when having sex with someone. so it would be correct to ask the partner for a test
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