Ladies if there were no birth control available would you wait until marriage to have sex?

Ladies if there were no birth control available would you wait until marriage to have sex?

Be honest. What would you do or change in your current lens of dating and sex?

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  • Yup I’d wait. Honestly I’m not even “having fun” being single. There’s too much STDs alone out there for me to deal with and pay up blood-work at the labs. Absolutely not 🖕 I don’t need any STDs thanks. people can do as they please and pay extra for their test results. I’m happy with my adult toys in my singleness. I don’t need any strangers body parts inside me. When I don’t even know we’re they’ve been.

    If I find a guy who I can call boy-friend, maybe. But no protection is always a risk for everything. So yeah I’d wait til marriage were my offspring can have their father who builds and protects the family.

    Regardless Pregnancy and STDs sounds like a nightmare. So maybe no sex at all. I’m not about to ruin my body with unwanted pregnancy and unwanted child, unplanned child, and being at risk of dying, hair falling off, teeth falling off. Postpartum depression.. SCREW THAT!!

    Screw All Of That!

    there's sex machines that can f—k you better than any man you known. And you don’t need to wait for him to flake on you, cancel on you, or dismiss you because he’s at work. You just switch it on. And it’ll clap the cheeks for hours.

    • I know a lot of women who feel the same way. I’m not sure where the idea of hookup culture comes from, but young people don’t have anywhere near as much sex has people think.

    • @FilmGuy93
      They do. It’s just.. it’s a select few. Men who know the game who have the arms like Popeye the Sailor who look like Pirates. But it’s not only looks. These men have to have a certain tone of voice, a certain frequency. They have to have boldness, the eyebrows tend to be thick. They just look pure fertile and testosterone radiating out of them. It really has to be a specific specific type of guy. I’ve seen it once or twice in my life. This man I used to know he had no issues getting the woman he wanted. ZERO issues. The face of Brad Pitt, black eyebrows thick. Hands of a boxer. Forearms of a boxer.
      Ladies if there were no birth control available would you wait until marriage to have sex?
      Reminded me of this guy.

      But these guys because of how promiscuous they are, are likely more often than not. FUSED with all the STDs in the book

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  • Absolutely otherwise youd end up a single mom. But maybe a lot of foreplay and mutual masturbate and dry humping, blowjobs, handjobs, cunnilingus, finger f*cking, clit rubbing, thighjobs, titjobs, anal etc basically what your great great grandparents used to do in what used to be called Heavy Petting. It's like those old "no heavy petting" signs that used to be at old swimming pools, which meant basically don't be finger banging or giving handjobs in the pool.

    Most people wait 10 years to get married today, whereas in the past people were married within a year either because they wanted to f*ck or because she was pregnant.

    Ladies if there were no birth control available would you wait until marriage to have sex?

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  • This is how things were a 100 years ago. That didn’t completely stop people from having sex before marriage. But social customs pressured men to marry the woman if he knocked her up. If he didn’t he was considered an irresponsible POS.

    I’ve gone back and forth on my opinions about this for years. I don’t want to be a hypocrite because I did have a lot of premarital sex myself. But I was ALWAYS careful with birth control. To the point of being extremely paranoid.

    But some people just want to do it Willy Nilly thinking that abortion is a safety net contraceptive. THAT I do not agree with at all.

  • In today's times? I do not believe most women would wait until marriage, even the ones who claim they could. Women today are much more sexually active and sex-minded than earlier generations, and I think they'd find some kinds of creative or clever ways to still get the D without getting pregnant.

    And even if they really did try to wait, they would probably push a guy to marry them cuz they're getting frustrated with waiting.

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  • Ofc

    or surgically change the things 😂.

    I would either whatever have the tubes tied or take something to stop the period, or ask him if he’d be willing to freeze his semen/sperm (if he and I were serious) and then have surgery so we could have countless sex, and then later, if we wanted children I’d take the sperm and then birth our child.

  • Nope but every guy would have to wear a condom the whole time. I just quit birth control and those are my current standards

    • Fair

    • Condoms are a form of birth control, so he means not using those as well.

    • @lazerbean ahhh got it

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  • Yes, we could still do sex stuff, just nothing that might cause pregnancy.

  • Nope, but I'd make sure I was well committed to him and him to me before we did anything. After all he would be a father if anything did happen.

  • Other holes are available and there's always intercrural. I'm not sure if I'd wait until marriage but I'd only let guys I knew and trusted in my vagina on those calander safe days

  • A good many marriages today have a very pregnant bride standing at the alter and from my own experiences no that did not slow me down.

  • Maybe. But even in marriage no intercourse, as there wouldn't be a way to prevent pregnancies then.

  • Definitely not lol.

  • Yes!

  • Men would be getting sex from very few woman.

  • No, been having sex with my fiance without condom and birth control and I’m all good.

  • Did that anyway.

    • Omg let me follow up on your laziness and ask what did you exactly do? Omg ugh

    • I did what you asked us if we would do. Do you know what that is? That would be wait till marriage.

  • I never used birth control anyways

    • Gross

    • @PainusNdeeAnus nothing gross about not using birth control. That shit is terrible for women

    • Personal choice?

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  • I’d have sex but only with women, and if I was with a trans women I would only do oral, anal and manual stuff.

  • I'm not promiscuous so... nothing.

  • Get my tubes tied or just never have sex again until I meet a man worthy of maybe being a daddy but I ain't waiting for marriage

    • But abstinence and tubal ligation or both forms of birth control

    • Would you be able to control for so long?

  • You truly underestimate the history of contraceptives. There will ALWAYS be birth control and it's absence has little to do with marriage and A LOT to do with personal responsibility

    • Agreed! That’s why I don’t think this can be properly answered because you would be commenting on something that you can’t put perspective on unless if it is experienced

    • @kylee2437 it'sa reality that has never existed not even in Bibical time see (Genesis30:14-16). In those days they believed that the mandrake plant could help boost fertility. If they knew in theory how to boost they certainly knew what to take in order to reduce lol

  • You betcha. Knowing me, one thing would have led to another and I’d have gotten knocked up out of wedlock at least once. But in general, absolutely.

  • would wait until i die

  • Just look at the ladies in past. Their fathers were armed with shotguns and long swords. Bastard bond was a thing.

    So yeah, they would have sex when they were young but would be very careful to at least know who the father is.

    • Ladies in the past were the legal property of their fathers and didn't even have the right to choose who they were married off to.

    • @suzzieQ Yeah and good fathers got really careful with them daughters. At least the smart ones. Dotting parents weren't new. They don't let some homeless bum knocking off their daughters. If some off chance some dude managed to knock her off then we get to see a shotgun wedding. Even today, fathers don't really change.

    • Just put yourself in her shoes. You get to choose whom you are going to marry. Right. You like a guy. What do you do? You charm him yes? Then you get knocked off. Then you tell you dad with the sob story. Then you dad would grab the guy, give him and beating and make him marry you.

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