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Sexual Health Men - Would you wear a chastity device?
Anonymous
I'm seriously considering making my husband wear one. I'm not talking about a chastity belt, but a discrete chastity device - a small metal cage which covers the head of the penis to prevent masturbation. It's locked on tight, and the key is held by the wife.. I'm not concerned about infidelity - I know my husband would never cheat on me, but he does masturbate without my permission sometimes, and I want to put a stop to that, because masturbation takes away his focus on me.. I want to be the sole source of his sexual pleasure. I have heard women online say that putting their husbands in chastity is the best thing they ever did, and that their husbands are so much more loving, romantic, and attentive.. Men are on their best behavior when they want sex, so I'm just extending that, by denying him release, I can keep him eager to please me all the time.. Apparently, chastity is a great way to "train" a man to be more submissive and obedient which doesn't sound bad, considering I practically wear the pants in our marriage anyways since I make more money than him. The way I see it is if I'm the one making the money and calling the shots, then his penis belongs to me. Mostly, I just find the idea of male chastity extremely sexy and arousing. I've been reading about it for months, and I'm ready to talk to my husband. This is something that I really, really, really want.
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18 161I would never do anything like that. What the hell makes you think you have that kind of control over a man. Perhaps I would a agree if I had the key to your chastity belt. You make money. I thought that it was a horrible to hold that over a women and not treat her well. You are at least honest when yo say you want to control him and make him obedient. What kind of pussy would let a women do that to him.
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What. The. Fuck.
You shoud do it for sure! Everything you have said is spot on. I am kept locked almost all of the time now myself and all of the focus is on pleasing my wife.
I would love it if my wife would make me wear a chastity device, especially if I had to wear it while I was watching her get fucked by another guy.
I've worn a chastity device for fun, (CB 9000 and a curve) and as long as everyone is in agreement then it's all good. I also have been looking heavily into the Dream Lover 2000 www.dreamloverlabs.com/dl2000-infomercial.php as a fun tool. (infomercial does not work on mobile devices) I also like some of the other tools available for those kind of games.
I would not. And I pity your husband. You sound like a selfish, egotistical woman with no respect for your husband.
i wholeheartedly agree with you.
No I just happen to be kinky. I honestly find it a turn-on, and I can't really help what I'm turned on by... I don't see how I'm being selfish. Chastity is supposed to increase his sex drive, and make his orgasms more intense.. It's good for him too.
I'm not talking about your sexual kinks. I'm talking about the way you refer to him as essentially being your property, holding your higher paying job over his head, and treating him like an animal to be trained. Your taking offense at his masturbation (which means you're probably not satisfying his needs) derives from your need for constant attention on your exclusive terms rather than mutual ones, and your desire for obedience outside the bedroom is more fitting for a child than a husband.
"Training" him and treating him like property are turn-ons to me.. Maybe I didn't word the question properly.. I love and respect my husband.. I'm not offended by his masturbation.. I know it has nothing to do with his sexual satisfaction. All men (and women) masturbate when they're horny and can't have sex.I just find it unfortunate because ejaculation naturally decreases his sexual desire for a couple of days. Lust is like a drug, and I want to keep him "high" all the time..
My wife was offended by my masturbation, so I guess our situation is a little bit different. However, she never knew she could actually enjoy sex until we introduced chastity to stop my masturbation. After a few weeks we started experimenting with making love while I was locked up. I agreed because I knew her vaginismus made intercourse very painful. She LOVED it. She had her first orgasm ever that night. We spoke about it the next day and she said knowing that I would make love to her just for her pleasure, and forego my own, made her feel really loved and turned her on like nothing ever had. We still have intercourse occasionally for my sake, but it is pretty rare now. Maybe once every six weeks or so. Otherwise I get to make love to her nearly as much as I want as long as I stay locked up. It was hard adjusting to giving up orgasms and erections for long periods at first, but the bond we developed as she helped me adjust has made us much closer.
The part about being "high" with desire is true. And there is another aspect you may not yet know about. As you train your husband to enjoy you without his penis, his mind and body adapt to feel pleasure in other ways. The first time I went a month without touching or using my penis I started getting REALLY sensitive in other areas. My wife discovered by accident that she could bring me very close to orgasm just by playing with my nipples. It was unbelievable and quite a shock to me. I had never experienced intense sexual pleasure from a part of my body other than my penis. And on the rare occasions that we do have intercourse, my orgasms are super intense. One thing that may be negative for some couples is that after a month or more in continuous chastity, I cum almost instantly. I've had times where just touching the tip of my penis to her vagina caused me to cum. I can't even get inside of her sometimes. This is wonderful for my wife, because she hates penetration.
Not me. I'de divorce you.
😂😂 this is the most pathetic thing i ever heard
You should make him wear one
I've worn mine for over 5 years its the best thing that ever happened to us both
She never lets me out or lets me ejaculate and in return she allows me to try to meet her every need both in and out of the bedroom. She never has to do anything at home and lets me do it all for her. She gets all the oral sex she wants when ever she wants and if she's in the mood she lets me fuck her with a strap on which she says she prefers its bigger than mine always ready for as long as she wants and does not make a mess. She also likes that whilst I'm using it I can't come or even get hard. So I am always feeling horny.
My Lady has told me that my being locked and denied is for an Indefinite period and may or may not be permanent but if it is then of course I'll never know
Definitely get one, have him wear it and read anything you can get by Sarah Jameson
I wouldn't even think about doing that.
That's just fucked up. You want to put a cage on his dick so that he can't masturbate? What kind of bitch does that? It may turn you on but it's so fucking wrong
If he doesn't want this or fantasize about this you shouldn't do it, but of he is, then go for it
i wouldn´t say i don´t have no submissive tendencies at all but i would never do that.
And if he begs and pleads to be let out, what are you going to do? Flush the key down the toilet so he’s stuck like that forever?
I've been wearing a chastity device off and on for several years. Even bought my Mistress/wife a safe that uses her fingerprint to open. I too have a problem with masturbating as well as ED. By surrendering my orgasms to her, I pleasure her orally most of the time and climaxes so much harder and I must say, a lot more often. I stay aroused 24/7, always willing and ready to worship her body. I don't feel the need to orgasm and have that huge let down once I have. When she's done, she has to peel me off of her.
You are a control freak... just saying.. you know...
sounds good
honestly how would you feel if someone told you you could never masturbate and got all your pleasure from someone else? its fun for a while but 24/7? you can't cut him off from something he's dont since he was 12 or 13.. thats just cruel.. plus morning erections are going to cause some pain im sure.. besides, hell just have wet dreams and cum without your permission.. eventually lol
Yes I would