My boyfriend wants me to swallow?

So my boyfriend asked if I would try swallowing. I'm pretty much totally against the idea, as I barely like blow jobs. But I'm willing to try it at least once to get him off my back about it...

so any tips or advice?
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  • You shouldn't swallow just once and decide you don't like it. That's a recipe for failure. It's an acquired taste. Swallow at least one or two dozen times over a period of as many days. You'll quickly get used to the taste and texture. If you find his cum has an objectionable taste like bleach then it's his diet causing that. You can very easily alter his diet to drastically improve the taste. It's as easy as having him eat a balanced diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables instead of junk food. Caffeinated drinks are verboten.

    • I've already decided I don't like it. I'm doing it once to get him off my back.

    • Okay, but I think that's unlikely to work out. I predict that he's going to want you to do it again. The best thing to do is just get it over with and go ahead and get used to it as I described. Then you'll like it and you'll be a lot happier. Voice of experience here.

    • I'm not going to do something I don't like just because my boyfriend likes it. Not interested in being miserable for the rest of my life.

  • It's not a proper BJ if you don't eat his sperm every time. I'd suggest just not do it at all if you are so reluctant. That is a turn off to the guy anyway when the girl does sexual things she really hates doing. They pick up on it and it turns it unsexy for them.

    • Sounds great to me.

    • The other women who have answered your question have picked up on a very important point. If he wouldn't eat his own cum, why should he expect you to? So my suggestion is this: Let him cum in your mouth, but hold his sperm in your mouth until he finishes ejaculating. When he is done spurting, move up so as to give him a kiss. Once your mouths are locked together in a kiss, release the sperm back into his own mouth. If he gets turned on by this (my guy does) and start kissing you back then he is worthy of asking you too swallow because he is willing to do it also. Cum kissing with your guy is fun and it also teaches mutual respect.

    • Lol. I can tell you right now that he is not even going to let that fly.

  • Swallow but let him see it on your tongue. thats whatvhe wants to see. and a benifit for you is a healthy glow on your skin and prolongs the time before he starts asking to go bareback and finnishing inside you

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  • Tell him to give you a courtesy tap and then take his dick all the way in and let him cum. That way you don't really taste it cuz its more in your throat and swallow. This is what my last ex said and did. Dont know if that's true or not. I mean honestly if you've been spitting this whole time your still swallowing some cum. Might as well take the whole thing down. Won't hurt you.

    • He doesn't ever cum in my mouth.

  • One idea is to deep throat him as he cums so his cum just goes straight down your throat. He's not gonna get off your back. He's gonna want it a lot of the time. How about if you think of his cum as his most precious gift and therefore you need to honor it and you by swallowing?

    • Listen... maybe some submissive girl would fall for that "most precious gift" crap, but I don't qualify. I don't like cum. I don't like blow jobs. And I don't deep throat. His whole philosophy is don't knock it till you try it... and if I try it once and don't like it he will accept it and move on. Because he respects me.

    • You asked for suggestions. I made suggestions. Sorry for hitting a nerve but clearly no disrespect was intended so I don't understand you aggressive and disrespectful reply.

    • It's just obnoxious that most men assume that most women are submissive.

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  • My boyfriend wants me to swallow? so any tips or advice?
    My advice is telling him you'll swallow once he does as well. Have him cum in a glass and if he sees it as unappealing/disgusting he may grasp why you're totally against the idea.

  • If you feel you must do something you don't like to get him off your back, perhaps reevaluating your relationship is in order.

  • If you don't want to don't
    But try it you might enjoy it when he is about to cum push his penis in to the back of you throat and you will not taste a thing
    problem solved

  • You should try eating! It's great practice! 😂😂

    • But seriously, you don't have to do it if you don't want to.

    • Oh... so i assume you've had plenty of practice? ;)

  • You don't have to do i. There is some health benefits in swallowing sperm but at the same time it's unacceptable for many women and men. Ask him this if he would taste his own sperm? and ask him if you can do it together?
    Other wise if you don't want to do it so don't do it.

  • Youtube is your friend.

    Make sure you turn adult filtering OFF first.

  • When he's ready to cum, push him back into your mouth as far as comfortable and be prepared to swallow the instant it comes out. That way it will spend the least amount of time in contact with your taste buds as possible. But hopefully you will find it to be a pleasant experience.

  • If you dont like blow jobs and you dont like the idea of swallowing, then you won't enjoy it at all. It all starts in your head. Swallowing doesn't taste good and you need to have a fetish for that to enjoy it. There are girls who love sperm and love to swallow. But girls who already dont like the idea dont enjoy it.

    My advice would be to not try it. He is going to survive it, I'm sure :)

  • drop the attitude...

    and assuming he doesn't spit the whole time he's eatin you out, look up "reciprocation". all men want you to swallow... get used to it :)

    • I agree to this. You simply can't eat pussy without getting fluids in your mouth. And what do you do with these? Not spit them in a container. They can only go one way and thats down your throat.

    • @anonman32 exactly. #feministdoublestandards yo lol

    • He doesn't eat me out. So this argument is 100% invalid. #sexistmenwiththeirassumptionsyo

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  • Spitters are quitters

  • if u dont like the idea than kindly say no instead of following him

  • It's like drinking a milkshake probably, or maybe like drinking orange juice with a lot of pulp in it maybe, like 80% pulp and 20% orange juice. I honestly don't know... just don't choke.

  • milk him and make him drink it.
    why is this such a thing?
    it's not a thing here

  • If you dont wanna swallow a whole load, just taste some; and tell him if you like the taste at all.
    He should be understandable, i never made a girlfriend do something sexually related she didn't wanna do; especially with my cum (as they said i shoot too much of it...)

  • You don't have to do it if you don't like it.

  • Maýb

    • Maybe traon yourself with swallowing egg whites before you do swallow cum.

    • Train*

  • Soo whu are you against it?

    • Swallowing?

    • Yeah

    • Just doesn't seem like my cup of tea. I mean like I said I barely enjoy blow jobs so...

  • He should try you sitting on his face while he eats you out and swallows your juices afterwards if you try swallowing his stuff.

  • if you dont like it, dont do it.. but at the same time, i dont see the big deal in you doing it for him

  • Don't take everything.

    It will be too much and you'll gag and never want to do it again.

    So just a bit.

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