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My boyfriend wants two girlfriends, what should I do?
Nicolemaddie Xper 3
My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of years and I know from the beginning he wouldn't settle down with me because he loves to have sex with people and so we are not "officaly together" he still sleep with other girls every now and then but now He ask me he wants to have 2 girlfriends. What should I do? We are in our 20s.
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If you experience a polyamorous please tell me how it went or cons/pros
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What he wants is to date 2 girls that the we wouldn't have financial problems and so he doesn't have to cheat because ill be there. he wants to grow together and experience new and exciting things.
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What Girls & Guys Said
61 156Leave him
If you aren’t okay with him having two girlfriends you should probably move on and find someone else. It sounds like you would eventually like to settle down and he sounds like the guy who never would want to. Don’t waste your time on a player, find a man who only wants you.
Dump him.
Uhhhh leave him? Lol! What a tool.
I dont get how you can accept that.. Respect. But also I don't know if that's smart of you. To me it just seems like a lot of heartbreak in process.
Ask him if you can also have two boyfriends. If he agrees, go for a foursome orgy. That'd be adventurous. Else dump him. That's it.
Your boyfriend doesn't love you & is just sexually greedy with people, I don't understand why women tolerate that kind of arrangement.
I don't think he's greedy. He loves her, but he is probably non-committal. I am as well.
I happen to think that's a hollow kind of love.
Agree to disagree- I can see your point, though.
I personally prefer one partner. But everyone needs love. You should do what really makes you happiest. And be proud of that relationship. Don't be dramatic and victimized because he want more women. If you dig that, then cool. However you do deserve to have someone who thinks you are everything would never need to look at another woman. It's your choice.
What do YOU want? If you want that sexual freedom and feel like being with more than one partner, then maybe it's for you. In other words, do you perceive yourself to be a polyamorous?
If not, you're just conceding things you shouldn't. Maybe you should move on and not try to adapt to the situation or you'll regret it in the long run.
If it doesn't bother you invite her with open legs
Look for a new boyfriend
No problem: You can help him to find two.
Dump his ass and find someone who u love and they love u back, don't stick with this dude
are you open to a polyamorous relationship
Polyamorous relationships are great for the people who want to be in one, but not great at all for people who don't. It's a personal thing. If you are not comfortable with being with two people, you shouldn't do it only because your boyfriend wants to.
Leave him or get ready for threesome.
😂😂😂😂 good one
Ask him that you want to have the same then wait for his view, at that time you will be able to see actual face of him, use your brain at that moment keeping your feelings aside for some time because you might need to take some tough decisions... good luck
If you're interested in a polyamorous relationship, then have a long discussion with your partner about details and terms of it, and see if you guys can work something out.
Otherwise tell him you're not interested and tell him how it makes you feel.
Discuss it with him and discuss you also being polyamorous.
Why did you even start a relationship with him in the first place? The only thing that's changed is that he has gone from having countless flings, which you've apparently been fine with. Too now, letting you know he wants to start bringing in a second full time girl.
I'm just confused why after so many years, you're suddenly taken aback by this. After all, you said he isn't going to settle down with you, so you either need to move on and leave the relationship (because you really don't have one to start with). Or simply deal with the situation and accept that he doesn't feel for you the way you do for him.