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Should I tell my now boyfriend that I am not a virgin? I've only slept with 1 guy but tbh I am thinking of saying to him that I am a virgin?

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Superb Opinion

  • Don't EVER lie. If the truth comes out, it could destroy a future relationship or marriage. For the moment, say nothing until he asks. If he doesn't ask after a couple of months OR it looks like you are going to have sex, then is the time to tell him.

    • Ty girl!!!

    • No w orries. No guy should turn you down because you have been with one guy.

    • @jessica405 You must have been sent by Jesus

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Don't do it. That's not the kind of information you should hide from him even if there is no serious commitment. Also, he'll be able to tell you aren't a virgin and it will only create trust issues and possibly a break up. It's really not a big deal.

    Maybe you can meet him half way. If he doesn't ask, just don't say anything, but if he does ask, just be honest.

  • Yes tell him you are not a virgin and I think he be okay if your not a virgin and it’s only one guy. I would t be a big deal for him. Maybe he might not be into it if he is a vigin and was hoping you and him would lose your virginity together. Also he might be nervous that he won’t be as good as the last guy you had sex with.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Tell him the truth. Please do not lie and say you're a virgin when you are not. He'll only get upset and mad at you once he finds out you're not a virgin like he thought you were. And then he won't trust and be wary about what you say, since you lied once.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • You should never lie to someone you care about. No matter how small or large, you should not feel the need to lie or be ashamed of something just to be with another person.

  • It shouldn’t matter to him but tell him if you want to be straight with him.

    • So u say i should tell him the truth?

    • Yes, absolutely you should be honest.

    • Ty!!!

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  • lying is never good for any relationship.

  • Why would you lie to him? That would make you stupid.

  • You should tell him it's better than lying then slipping up at a later date and it being a bigger problem for him!

  • Be open and honest. Never build a relationship on a lie.

  • I am not surprised to see a non-virgin who is a liar, hos tend to be dark and dirty, it nasty.

  • Is virginity important to him?

  • Why lie? Respect yourself.

  • Why would you lie? What is that gonna do for him? Don't lie. Liars are the worst 😒

    • @peachypie93 agree!

  • Why lie about it

    • I am afraid that he won't like that i am not a virgin So its not okay to lie about it if he asks?

    • Would It be OK to cheat with u and lie if u asked because he Is scared u would leave him

    • If he dont want to be with u because of it why would u want to be with a guy u have to trick into a relationship

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  • Tell him whatever you want. If he cares that you were with someone previously, then he's not the man for you.

  • Honesty is one of the most important things in a successful relationship. Once trust is broken, it can never be fully regained.

  • Why does that matter?

  • Lying to him what a healthy choice. You should end the relationship is what you should do. The fact you are considering lying shows you are not ready for a relationship

  • Dont lie

  • I mean if he asks you you should definitely be honest.

  • dont lie to him

    tell him as it is

  • Why even bring it up?

  • If it matters to him it's a red flag. You could tell him the truth and if he is upset you know he's not the one for you.

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