Shouldn't men escalate things very fast to sex when it comes to women?
They say a woman knows if she wants to fuck you a couple minutes in from meeting you:
It's one of these reasons why a guy could know a girl for years be with her through good and bad, make her laugh, and share common interest, do nice things for her and not get anywhere even when he made his intentions clear from the start that he liked her more than a friend. While another guy could meet her and in 15-30 minutes she is on her knees slobbering his Johnson.
With that being said it just seems going on dates and getting to know a girl is all just wasting time in the sense that you can do all this and at the end of the day it does not increase the chance a girl will sleep with you unless of course you indirectly show your wealth and status while doing it.
Now BEFORE I GET FLAMED BY GAG GIRLS. Men aren't interested in sex alone but it is IMPORTANT to men. Women by in large tend to be very emotionally withdrawn before sleeping with a guy. They'll put on superficial level of kindness and interest in you but they don't really care that much about you. Guys by in large before having sex with them still often have to initiate all conversation, lead the conversation because the girl isn't asking any questions about you, plan out hangout sessions and call them, and by in large chase the girl.
" In my experience, it's harder for women to separate sex from love. Sex makes a woman more emotionally vulnerable, and this automatically gives a man the upper hand UNLESS there is a strong bond and mutual respect."
It's only after having sex that something is triggered in the woman's brain and she now starts showing interest and chasing you back.
So the relationship starts off one sided before having sex and tends to become closer to 50/50 after having sex.
Should guys therefore opt for sex quick and escalate things quickly with women?
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