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Slept with 2 guys in 2 days. How bad is this?

Okay so neither of the guys are new guys. One is an ex and one is a friend. My ex and I have been broken up for a year, contemplating working it out, but just not getting along. We had a date planned for Saturday. He cancelled the reservation because he was upset I went out for drinks the night before. I told him he was being too controlling and he ignored me the rest of the day. I had a little too much wine and ended up telling my friend to come over so we could watch movies. We both ended up really drunk and had unprotected sex. I felt so slutty the next day and VERY uneasy because we did not use protection.

The next day my ex apologized and we spent the day together and yes, we had sex. Unprotected.

I don't know if I feel guilty because I am not stupid enough to think my ex hasn't hooked up with anyone else, even though he told me he hasn't (we haven't seen each other in 3 months). Additionally, my friend and I talked it over and we agreed it was a mistake and we are just friends. I told him I was paranoid about the sex being unprotected but he assured me he has not been with anyone and he did not finish (to put my mind at ease about STDs and pregnancy)... I plan on getting a full panel STD test soon so that I can stop being paranoid.

I just want to know whether this was a really bad thing I did. I don't know how to feel.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • In summary:
    Tried to restart a failed relationship
    Had a disagreement, felt bad, called friend for consolation
    Got drunk, had sex, and then felt bad and scared about the sex
    Had makeup sex (and I'm guessing relationship is still in quasi-solid territory?)

    I'm hoping you see the red flags like I do; STDs are a scare, yes, but I'm more concerned about the potential "sex as a coping mechanism" situation.

    Please find someone you trust, who knows you and will give you an honest answer. Let them know what happened and see what they say. It's hard to judge a situation like this from a stranger online posting a couple paragraphs and asking for a moral call.

  • Why would you feel guilty? And also that might be the perfect friend with benefits situation! You never know your friend might be a better match than your ex! But honestly if you and your ex are not exclusively together then he is also sleeping with other girls so definitely don't feel guilty. Until you both decide to be together you both can do whatever you want 😊

    • Thanks for the mho beautiful! ❤️

Most Helpful Girls

  • Keep it up and you will break 30 for the month. You keep repeating that you had unprotected sex with both. So either you are a Sex Ed. Class flunk-out or trolling. Because I'm sure you know you can get pregnant with unprotected sex. So it must be you are trolling for comments telling you just how dumb you are.

    Slept with 2 guys in 2 days. How bad is this?

  • Be nicer to yourself and don’t beat yourself up over it. You didn’t hurt anyone

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  • You do you... it's nothing tragic. Just be safe out there, love.

  • I think basing any of your value on your sexual behavior is stupid in general.
    It's totally fine, and the sooner the society accepts that it's totally fine, the sooner we will have a world full of happy people free of mutual judgement and crippling self-esteem issues.

  • No thats not bad 3 guys in a day well maybe. But i thi k tbe rules are 2 in 2 days is ok

  • Only u can decide if it was a bad or good thing here everyone has differnt views on these things

  • BAD THING? Heck no. GOOD THING

  • You should dismiss the ex. You broke up for a reason. Never look back.

  • Gross

  • It's not bad. Unless you didn't want to. I hope you had a great time. There is nothing bad about enjoying sex with different partners.

  • As bad as you want it to be.

    It's your own choice to f up your life and/or health.
    Do what you like.

    Me personally, i would never date a woman like that.

  • It was probably unwise, but not bad per se.

  • It's your life, have as much sex as you want. Just be more careful.

  • Not bad at all

  • Only if your looking for relationship with one or the other.

  • You really should take care

  • It's only bad if someone you tell thinks it is so you know what to do now? QUIT TELLING PEOPLE EVERYTHING.

  • Be careful many get STDs

  • No, you did nothing wrong

  • depends, if you just slept with them or if you had sex with them.

  • Just do whatever you want, it's your life, you're a slut and that's ok. Stop acting innocent, just own up to liking sex and move on. Nothing wrong with that.

  • Just use condoms and have fun.

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