SPECIAL SURVEY - DON'T LIE! ... what's the REAL REASON you lost your V card?
laurieluvsitMaster
Was it a choice or was it unavoidable?
How did it happen?
How old were you?
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Here is an interview asking others how they lost their's...When did you lose your virginity...What is the definition of losing your virginity...
A. Like most first times, I was playing around and getting into heavy petting & kissing and got so sexually aroused that I couldn't stop it and just surrendered to it but wasn't sorry that I did
Vote A
B. Like most first times, I was playing around and getting into heavy petting & kissing and got so sexually aroused that I couldn't stop it and just surrendered to it and was very sorry and disappointed in myself that I did
Vote B
C. I was seriously pressured into it. I wouldn't call it rape, but close because I really didn't want to do it but was too insecure at the time to say no
Vote C
D. I was raped so I had no choice as to whether I wanted it or not
Vote D
E. I got married and instead of losing it, I gave it to my forever lover the legitimate way
Vote E
F. I never lost mine and am still a virgin
Vote F
G. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "How I Lost My Virginity" survey
I just wanted to experience it. I was tired of waiting
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Finchie40Master
+1 y
I can’t really say what my first time was cuz things happened when I was a kid long story, but the first time I was totally head over heels for a girl was in Junior High and the girl I had a huge crush on I ended up winning her heart and became boyfriend girlfriend , we would just make out in the beginning of the relationship but a close To a month in we decided to take it further she was a virgin so she was nervous and I in a sense was a virgin as well , I say to this day that she was my first , we were both nervous but knew we wanted it , after that night we fucked like rabbits lol
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Stoner710Guru
+1 y
I was desperate so I decided to hire a Japanese prostitute in Japan
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Shellyworld
+1 y
How was the service?
Stoner710
+1 y
@Shellyworld not bad actually it was expensive but not bad
Christsdisciple15Explorer
+1 y
option c. But firstly, what counts as virginity? Because I felt very pressured into giving oral sex. But I haven’t had like penetrative sex. It wasn’t a good experience for me, I felt very used and I actually cried afterwards. I wouldn’t call it sexual assault because I don’t want to diminish other people’s experiences that are probably much much worse but I definitely was naive.
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laurieluvsit
+1 y
YOU WROTE: "But firstly, what counts as virginity?" The last video in my post titled - "When Do American's Lose Their Virginity?" answers that question. In any regard, I am so sorry that happened to you and that you haven't fully recovered from it yet :( Time is the best healer so I hope as more time goes by you will more fully recover from it Ms CD.
lilyanony1
+1 y
That's still an assault
likelyOK
+1 y
I’m so sorry to hear that is awful
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Christsdisciple15
+1 y
@lilyanony1 I don’t know. I feel like calling it sexual assault takes a lot of responsibility away from me? or maybe I’ve been conditioned to think that way. I’ll tell you the situation as a way for me to vent but also you can decide. The situation was that this guy had been basically caressing my inner thigh underneath the desk in English class one morning without asking me (this happened when I was 16 and I’m 18) and I didn’t stop him because it aroused me and felt good. I hadn’t done anything sexual before not even held hands. So it was extremely pleasurable and I let him continue. And it became a regular thing where every English class I would let him do it and I would like pull my skirt up a little higher to encourage him. Bear in mind we never spoke about it. It was like a silent thing. And so one day after school, we had an after school math class and so we sat next to eachother. He continued to rub my inner thigh but this time he grabbed my hand and guided it to his... area. He was basically encouraging me to squeeze on it, so I did (once again I had never done anything sexual with anyone before this) and then after a while I stopped and class ended. He said to me meet me in the downstairs music classroom. so I did. But here’s where I think I was naive because I went there not thinking about what would happen, I thought he’d just want to make out with me or something. But anyway that’s when it happened. And at first he told me to use my hands and started saying for me to use my mouth (sorry to be graphic) and I started saying “no I can't do this.” But he kept pleading with me so I did it because I felt kinda obliged. I feel like I can’t call it assault because I made the choice to go down there to the music classroom, and I made the choice to let him touch me underneath the desk all those times. I don't know I feel like I have to take responsibility? But it still makes me sad
InexpensivefurnitureYoda
+1 y
I lost mine with my first serious boyfriend when I was 19. We'd been dating a couple weeks and I felt safe and comfortable enough with him that one night I just let things continue to progress. I don't regret it. He was really sweet and nice and I'm glad he was my first. My only regret is I wish I'd waited a little longer because I think I would have been less nervous if we'd been dating a little longer first. But overall it was still a good experience
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KingdomForAKissExplorer
+1 y
A. Totally in love. We both wanted to wait til we were married but we got lost in the moment. Had no regrets.
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GoogleWasMyIdeaXper 5
+1 y
It was for my birthday.
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laurieluvsit
+1 y
18th?
GoogleWasMyIdea
+1 y
Yeah sadly :/
laurieluvsit
+1 y
So it was not a pleasant experience for you?
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GoogleWasMyIdea
+1 y
It was very pleasant but the girl was older than me. She was 26 and she dominated me in bed by far. It was amazing but I wish I saved it for someone I loved.
laurieluvsit
+1 y
Ok, I get it, thank you for sharing!
sheikalanaMaster
+1 y
I was 15 and dumb and lost my virginity to a random dude because I thought that was going to make me a more mature person and thought that people would start seeing me as a woman instead of just a teenager.
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laurieluvsit
+1 y
How long after it happened until you started to feel remorse about it?
sheikalana
+1 y
I don't feel remorse or regret it I just know that wasn't the right way of doing things.
laurieluvsit
+1 y
OK, thank you so much for sharing! :)
JosyJosyMaster
+1 y
Choice. I wanted to do it, we were already dating. I wanted to know what it's like. People were putting sex on a pedestal and I thought it was like a guy thing, but girl friends would do it too and I was like 'what the heck' why not. So next time we fooled around, I let it escalate, he was ready to go too, so we did it :) I was 20 no regrets, it was nice
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humanearthMaster
+1 y
I choose The last one G:Other
Was it a choice or was it unavoidable? Mix of both. I wanted it and she didn't (I'll explain Below)
How did it happen? Just Read this. I did a MyTake a few years ago and it explains everything. Like how I lost my V-Card and it contains a bonus story on my lingerie Kink on how that got started.
How old were you? I was 18, but if you read the above MyTake you would have known that.
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humanearth
+1 y
never mind on how badly the MyTake is written. It was my very first MyTake
Anpu23Master
+1 y
Was it a choice or was it unavoidable? I was forced both with threats and violence.
How did it happen? I was stupid enough to get into a car with two strangers. I was cuffed, chained to a bed for three days, sexually assaulted and nearly killed. I still have many scars that I cary to this day.
How old were you? I was 13.
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laurieluvsit
+1 y
OMG! ... I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope they are still rotting in a rat infested prison cell!!
Anpu23
+1 y
Nope no one would listen to me including the rape crisis hotline I called. I just lived with it, and a bunch of anger for many many years.
I can't bare to read things like that, I'm sorry, it effects me emotionally too much but I am so glad that you posted it. Writing about it and sharing it with others who are sympathetic to it is a great form of therapy, as I am sure you are aware.
Anpu23
+1 y
Yes and thank you.
Shellyworld
+1 y
I’m sooo sorry to hear this.
Shellyworld
+1 y
Hope you’re okay now
Anpu23
+1 y
@Shellyworld I am, thank you.
Danny_dan92Master
+1 y
I was desperate
Fucked my first girlfriend
With her mom in the other room watching tv
I was 21
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TacosRAwesomeMaster
+1 y
In all honesty, I was 26 and it reminded me of my emotionally abusive ex so I found a dude on tinder and was like fuck it, don't need or want this anymore.
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Aakash_HangargiGuru
+1 y
Was, never a virgin technically men donot have the concept of virginity👻.
But I am still "Pure" the untouched 🎃🎃🎃🤣🤣🤓🤓🤓😆.
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FatherJackGuru
+1 y
Voted A as pretty accurate , we were both underage @ 14
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poneglyphsGuru
+1 y
I'm still a virgin but want to lose it soon.
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jeremy_09Explorer
+1 y
i'm not lying, i wanted to put my dick inside a girl
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BloJoXper 6
+1 y
I did not value my virginity. When I was nineteen years old, a cougar saw me. I looked good to her. She asked to come home with me. I said, “Yes.” The sex was not even that good. 😞
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likelyOK
+1 y
That whole story is sad I’m sorry I never realized by the way there were so many predatory women. Some other guy IRL said he hooked up with a 32 yr old when he was 19 and I was like wth
BloJo
+1 y
Men have minimal self control at nineteen. Any woman who wants to, will likely score with them. I still regret that day.
Wise4myageMaster
+1 y
One f my friends set me up and I was ready for it to happen.
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clampfan101Master
+1 y
I’m saving it for E, but still haven’t gotten there yet...
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29 46I just wanted to experience it. I was tired of waiting
I can’t really say what my first time was cuz things happened when I was a kid long story, but the first time I was totally head over heels for a girl was in Junior High and the girl I had a huge crush on I ended up winning her heart and became boyfriend girlfriend , we would just make out in the beginning of the relationship but a close
To a month in we decided to take it further she was a virgin so she was nervous and I in a sense was a virgin as well , I say to this day that she was my first , we were both nervous but knew we wanted it , after that night we fucked like rabbits lol
I was desperate so I decided to hire a Japanese prostitute in Japan
How was the service?
@Shellyworld not bad actually it was expensive but not bad
option c. But firstly, what counts as virginity? Because I felt very pressured into giving oral sex. But I haven’t had like penetrative sex. It wasn’t a good experience for me, I felt very used and I actually cried afterwards. I wouldn’t call it sexual assault because I don’t want to diminish other people’s experiences that are probably much much worse but I definitely was naive.
YOU WROTE: "But firstly, what counts as virginity?" The last video in my post titled - "When Do American's Lose Their Virginity?" answers that question. In any regard, I am so sorry that happened to you and that you haven't fully recovered from it yet :( Time is the best healer so I hope as more time goes by you will more fully recover from it Ms CD.
That's still an assault
I’m so sorry to hear that is awful
@lilyanony1 I don’t know. I feel like calling it sexual assault takes a lot of responsibility away from me? or maybe I’ve been conditioned to think that way. I’ll tell you the situation as a way for me to vent but also you can decide. The situation was that this guy had been basically caressing my inner thigh underneath the desk in English class one morning without asking me (this happened when I was 16 and I’m 18) and I didn’t stop him because it aroused me and felt good. I hadn’t done anything sexual before not even held hands. So it was extremely pleasurable and I let him continue. And it became a regular thing where every English class I would let him do it and I would like pull my skirt up a little higher to encourage him. Bear in mind we never spoke about it. It was like a silent thing. And so one day after school, we had an after school math class and so we sat next to eachother. He continued to rub my inner thigh but this time he grabbed my hand and guided it to his... area. He was basically encouraging me to squeeze on it, so I did (once again I had never done anything sexual with anyone before this) and then after a while I stopped and class ended. He said to me meet me in the downstairs music classroom. so I did. But here’s where I think I was naive because I went there not thinking about what would happen, I thought he’d just want to make out with me or something. But anyway that’s when it happened. And at first he told me to use my hands and started saying for me to use my mouth (sorry to be graphic) and I started saying “no I can't do this.” But he kept pleading with me so I did it because I felt kinda obliged. I feel like I can’t call it assault because I made the choice to go down there to the music classroom, and I made the choice to let him touch me underneath the desk all those times. I don't know I feel like I have to take responsibility? But it still makes me sad
I lost mine with my first serious boyfriend when I was 19. We'd been dating a couple weeks and I felt safe and comfortable enough with him that one night I just let things continue to progress. I don't regret it. He was really sweet and nice and I'm glad he was my first. My only regret is I wish I'd waited a little longer because I think I would have been less nervous if we'd been dating a little longer first.
But overall it was still a good experience
A. Totally in love. We both wanted to wait til we were married but we got lost in the moment. Had no regrets.
It was for my birthday.
18th?
Yeah sadly :/
So it was not a pleasant experience for you?
It was very pleasant but the girl was older than me. She was 26 and she dominated me in bed by far. It was amazing but I wish I saved it for someone I loved.
Ok, I get it, thank you for sharing!
I was 15 and dumb and lost my virginity to a random dude because I thought that was going to make me a more mature person and thought that people would start seeing me as a woman instead of just a teenager.
How long after it happened until you started to feel remorse about it?
I don't feel remorse or regret it I just know that wasn't the right way of doing things.
OK, thank you so much for sharing! :)
Choice. I wanted to do it, we were already dating. I wanted to know what it's like. People were putting sex on a pedestal and I thought it was like a guy thing, but girl friends would do it too and I was like 'what the heck' why not.
So next time we fooled around, I let it escalate, he was ready to go too, so we did it :)
I was 20 no regrets, it was nice
I choose The last one G:Other
Was it a choice or was it unavoidable? Mix of both. I wanted it and she didn't (I'll explain Below)
How did it happen? Just Read this. I did a MyTake a few years ago and it explains everything. Like how I lost my V-Card and it contains a bonus story on my lingerie Kink on how that got started.
This is my story how I got started wearing ladies lingerie
How old were you? I was 18, but if you read the above MyTake you would have known that.
never mind on how badly the MyTake is written. It was my very first MyTake
Was it a choice or was it unavoidable? I was forced both with threats and violence.
How did it happen? I was stupid enough to get into a car with two strangers. I was cuffed, chained to a bed for three days, sexually assaulted and nearly killed. I still have many scars that I cary to this day.
How old were you? I was 13.
OMG! ... I am so sorry that happened to you. I hope they are still rotting in a rat infested prison cell!!
Nope no one would listen to me including the rape crisis hotline I called. I just lived with it, and a bunch of anger for many many years.
I did something brave today, and I wanted to share it? ↗ A letter I wrote to the rape crisis hotline
I can't bare to read things like that, I'm sorry, it effects me emotionally too much but I am so glad that you posted it. Writing about it and sharing it with others who are sympathetic to it is a great form of therapy, as I am sure you are aware.
Yes and thank you.
I’m sooo sorry to hear this.
Hope you’re okay now
@Shellyworld I am, thank you.
I was desperate
Fucked my first girlfriend
With her mom in the other room watching tv
I was 21
In all honesty, I was 26 and it reminded me of my emotionally abusive ex so I found a dude on tinder and was like fuck it, don't need or want this anymore.
Was, never a virgin technically men donot have the concept of virginity👻.
But I am still "Pure" the untouched 🎃🎃🎃🤣🤣🤓🤓🤓😆.
Voted A as pretty accurate , we were both underage @ 14
I'm still a virgin but want to lose it soon.
i'm not lying, i wanted to put my dick inside a girl
I did not value my virginity. When I was nineteen years old, a cougar saw me. I looked good to her. She asked to come home with me. I said, “Yes.” The sex was not even that good. 😞
That whole story is sad I’m sorry I never realized by the way there were so many predatory women. Some other guy IRL said he hooked up with a 32 yr old when he was 19 and I was like wth
Men have minimal self control at nineteen. Any woman who wants to, will likely score with them. I still regret that day.
One f my friends set me up and I was ready for it to happen.
I’m saving it for E, but still haven’t gotten there yet...