What age did you lose your virginity? Any regrets?

What age did you lose your virginity? Do you regret anything about that experience? I am a virgin and am thinking about having sex with my boyfriend who had let me know he really really wants to do it and I want to as well but I'm afraid that once I lose it, it's gone. He thinks I'm putting being a virgin on a pedestal and for him sex is a rush. In fact on our first date, it almost happened but I said I wasn't ready and he was respectful and just finished himself off. I don't think I'm putting being a virgin on a pedestal but it is important to me and will not just give it to any guy, he has to be special. I am 22 by the way and I do have a sex drive but also a sane mind. So what was your experience like?
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  • I was 17, and I have no regrets about the experience. Sometimes I wonder if I should have done it earlier.

  • 15, only regret is I was drunk and don't really remember the whole situation.

  • 25 and i regret, because i have found my man when i was 28

  • I was 17 and bummed that a guy I liked a lot didn't like me back so I thought I'd just get it over with. I was one of the last people in my peer group to have sex, so I felt lame. A guy I knew from school hit on me at a party and that was that.

    I don't regret it because I was glad to get it over with, but I wish i'd have been able to be with someone I cared about and vice versa.

  • I'm too ugly and fat for female friends so how the hell do you suppose I get sex? Pay for it? I'm looking at the female answers what a shocker non of them are virgins I wonder why. Must be nice never worrying when you can't get sex when you want it with whom and where you want it.

    • Cry me a river...

    • Looking for pity won't get you laid.

    • LMFAO even when a guy like myself is honest we're labeled liars? I'M Too fucking ugly for female friends why is that so hard to understand? We all know ugly chicks get laid faster than ugly guys. @smalls1995 Want proof?

  • i was 25 with a friends with benefits

  • I was 24.
    I do regret it, just because the man turned out to be a jerk who just used me.

    • That's my concern..

  • 23, Still a virgin

    • My only regret may be my lack of confidence, I wish would have put myself out there more. But I'm glad I haven't had sex just to do it. I think it should be special and with someone you care for.

    • Yeah I'm with you on that

  • I was 22, and my only regret was that I didn't do it sooner (shyness and all that held me back).

  • 20,, yes I wish I had lost it to a different girl with out maturity issues!

    • That's my concern as well

  • I was 25. I kept waiting and waiting. Bf after bf and I thought he was right. And I was wrong. I waited so long to only lose it to the wrong person in the end

    • Aw I'm sorry to hear that. I understand what you mean bc I'm waiting for a good guy too. Hence the reason I am still a virgin

  • 10... not exactly by choice...

    • Wow, what happened there?

    • Three 17/18 year old girls raped me by having one hold down my arms, another holding down my legs and the third undressing me. Then tried to convince me that I wanted it because I was getting hard and that if I didn't want it then I wouldn't have gotten hard. Not exactly something I enjoy talking about and I've never told anyone I actually know in real life about this. I was too scared for what they might think... if they would even believe me. I don't know the three girls names. I can still give a very accurate description of 1 of them til this day with ease (the other two I remember somewhat but nothing detailed) and I know what city they came from... at least what city 13 years ago... The part that has changed my views on women is the one that did the most.. the one I remember very vividly. I remember her being extremely hot, and til this day any girl that I think is really hot I avoid like the plague.

    • I also know the exact date. August 31, 2001.

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