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Guys, what would you do if your girl started crying during/after sex?
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I want y'all to know this is completely normal. Some people call it crymaxing 😆 kind of like climaxing I guess but it's not cuz of sadness or being in pain.
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What Guys Said
(110)I had a girlfriend who did this. Her organs were awesome. I was happy to do whatever it took.
Ask her what is up
I have to admit that I've never had a girlfriend do that. But if it did happen probably the first time it would freak me out until I understood that she wasn't in pain or there wasn't something else she was upset about.
Ask why.
Her answer would dictate how I felt or what I did.
Is she crying because it was really intimate and personal for her or because she feels something negative towards me... etc.
Comfort her, hold her, kiss her. Draw her in my arms and gently caress her.
Assuming it is not something negative going on:
I will ask: "Are you OK?" If she says "Yes", that's OK.
It's the flood of adrenaline, hormones and dopamine.
Tears of joy.
If I knew she always did it’d be fine. The first time might surprise me a lot. I’ve heard of it but I wouldn’t be expecting it and would be worrying she was upset.
Hey sex is different for everyone! If you're having fun still that's what matters right?
I had an ex that would have emotional fits after orgasming. It was very intense for her. It was okay, but part of my responsibility was making sure she didn't hit her head or fall of of the bed. Me not being a terribly big guy that was sometimes difficult but hey it worked. The first time it happened I was very worried about her but after the air was cleared it was okay. Communication before during and after is always important :)
I've never had a girl cry on me in the bedroom before. I'd initially be worried it's because of me. If not then I'd try and cheer her up. I'd hold her in my arms and comfort her until she stops crying and try to make her laugh.
Further to this, I often make girls laugh during sex. I sometimes do this by blowing a raspberry using her pussy, or moving her vagina lips as if it's talking. 🤷🏽♂️ I like to have fun during sex 😊
If it was my first time coming across that I'd stop and make sure she was alright, it'd probably take a little bit for me to get used to that, if I ever come across it.