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Sexual Health When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?
DizzyDesii Editor
Im not crazy about 69 but if i do it, i like the guy on top as if he’s doing push ups so that he can thrust deep into my throat. Lying on my back helps the diick to ease down my throat more easily and then im less likely to gag. #FeelFreeToList #SixNine
I tried and prefer to be on top
Vote A
I tried and prefer to be on bottom
Vote B
I tried it but didn't like it
Vote C
I haven't tried but want to be on top
Vote D
I haven't tried but want to be on bottom
Vote E
Im never want to try 69
Vote F
Im asexual
Vote G
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Updates:
+1 y
Lol i notice guys say they dont wanna be on top cause theyre heavier. Lol some girls have the same fear that they’ll suffocate you too. Thats why i like the guy on top AS LONG AS he knows not to put all his body weight down on me. Get in pushup position. This is where military dudes who have to do pushups a lot come in handy 😏 they know how to thrust/hold their weight
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+1 y
Ok y'all just cause im on the bottom doesn't mean ass and balls will be in my face 🤣 thats what boxers are made for. Just pull the dick out the slit and do my thang 😄 besides the guy would be in pushups position and occasionally on all 4s when he gets tired
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What Girls & Guys Said
34 108Definitely on top. I want to keep her powerless when I make her squirt everywhere.
Hot damn
Plus being on top, I want my cum to jet out down her throat.
Ewwwww
@BlackCatBone You big baby.
No, just not a submissive. Period.
@BlackCatBone Good for you. Now buzz off.
No idea lol I definitely wanna try different ways to see what works for us.
But I'm definitely concerned about his weight squashing me if he's on top, I'm too petite to handle that, theoretically. Practically though, things might be different so I don't really know.
Lol read update
You're definitely a Top!
Top, then I can still keep distance and not drown
😂😂😂😂
Unless you don't get as juicy haha
I totally drowned my ex lol
Kind of makes it even hotter. Especially if the shape of the pussy is good
And regarding your update. Sometimes it is nicer for the guy to be on the bottom, because then the girl can control how deep the penis goes, if it's a big one
I don't think I'm gonna be someone that's into 69.
Oh yea my bad
Tbh O just want to have sex with her and leave the awkawed stuff for a while
Her on top.
Okay lol
As in the A position. Newsflash. A guy will not be thirsty after that session.
Lol i drowned my ex regardless
I like the weight of a woman on top of me
Bottom.
I want her to sit on my face. 🙂
Lol ok
Top so I can close my jaw when I want lol
Lmaooooo
Haha that too, I dont wanna suffocate his ass 😂 or vise versa.
I prefer to be on the bottom during any kind of sexual encounter
Okayy
Don't you like cowgirl and reverse cowgirl too?
You never like being in top?
@Tonythecreator no
Why is that? I’m curious
@Tonythecreator its just the one area that in my life i was someone to dominate and control me. Now dont get me wrong i am not by any means a Sub i just want someone to take charge and do all of the work
@Tonythecreator sure
I like to be on top so I can take a break if I need it.
I understand
I haven't tried but want to be on top
Lol ok
I don't like 69. I like to use my skills without any distraction.
I like being on top
Okayy
This is s tough one.
Ok one hand, it depends how much heavier he or she is over me. I love top sometimes because sometrikes my partner here's that tongue just a little further up, if you catch my drift ;). I won't get that on the bottom.
However, as someone who loves to submit, even they're on top, I feel line I'm absolutely at that person's mercy, and that they have complete control lover my face. A guy can hop deeper, or a woman can sit up and ride my face.
That's a tough, but fun, one to think about!
Oh wow
Depends on my mood. Top when i wanna take control and pace her orgasms, bottom when i wanna hand her the reigns and feel her weight pressed against me
Nice
Nice question and images ha. 69 was something I'd tend to do more so when younger... it can be fun but not a big preference for me as I like to focus on giving which is hard to do when receiving lol... but when I've done it I've been on the bottom - even when with a transgender woman - who I've also done it side-by-side with which is fun
Was she post or pre op?
@Guardian45 pre
@DizzyDesii this is a fun thread to read over :)
I picked D because I'm not tryna choke
😂😂😂😂 you need to be on bottom. Its easier to not gag lol
😂😅 oh lol. I'll try it then lol. I just imagined me not being able to say "wait! I need air!"
😂😂😂😂
I'm over here taking notes lol
Lmao you make me laugh so hard
😂 I'm glad lol.
I feel like it'd probably depend on my mood but probably bottom just because it'd give better access to everything and give you more options to work with. But I'd be down for trying it both ways.
Nice
Mhmm.
Haven't 69'd yet. I love giving but I'm too nervous to receive oral
Yea its nervewrecking but once he eat it you ain't gone wanna stop
Lol I believe that, and I'm not worried about like how I taste and all that, I'm just nervous to approach it
Nothing to worry about. Most guys LOVE it. If they don't; lose them!