Which one (s) would make you want to no longer pursue the person?
DizzyDesiiEditor
Would the things on the poll cause you to find them unattractive or boring? I dont see those things as unattractive or boring but then again im biased in this situation 😂 I started to add “more tits than ass” on the poll but im pretty sure i already know how most feel about that 🤣 Im expecting to see some “so what does this person do for fun?”... kinda sad and immature if people think smoking/drinking/partying are the only ways to have fun #FeelFreeToList
I would not like that they werent into smoking anything (weed, cigarettes, hookah, etc)
Vote A
I would not like that they werent into partying at all
Vote B
I would not like that they werent into drinking alcohol
Vote C
I would not like having to date for 6 months without sex
Vote D
I would not like that they prefer to spend more time indoors/at home
Vote E
I would not like that they’re more book smart than street smart
Vote F
I actually would still pursue them regardless of these
Vote G
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+1 y
I expected the withholding sex until i felt “in love” to be a dealbreaker but im shocked a lot of smokers/drinkers dont want a partner who won't do the same 🤷♀️
+1 y
People please read 🤦♀️ I said i DO NOT smoke/drink/party... option G is for those who agree with my stance on A-F 🤦♀️
@DizzyDesii oh yea.. now I see... well, I'm not antisocial, in fact I'm super social, and I've been to parties where I've asked myself that. A party is only as good as the people I misunderstood. I imagined talking to someone who was not listening and indifferent. While that rarely ever happens, there are women like that. Can't get much more disrespectful than that lol
CaiskingXper 2
+1 y
The not listening is the worst one to me because it makes me feel like you are not interested
Hahhaha well my bad put that in the misunderstood column and move forward having fun
SweetnessxoxoExplorer
+1 y
Went with A
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Oh so u smoke
Sweetnessxoxo
+1 y
No i’ve never smoked in my life
DizzyDesii
+1 y
Thats what the poll says that i dont like to smoke
ThatGuy133Yoda
+1 y
If the person is cool, has great conversation and doesn't get me killed I'm thinking I can overlook some character flaws.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Lol can't promise i wouldn't get you killed 😂
justcurious2019Explorer
+1 y
100% honest the same as you any smoking drinking partying i would be gone a girl i used to work with would tell me she would go to a beach in new jersey and party with her friends i thought that was stupid of her like what happends if the cops show up she was also underage at the time 19
maybe i just sound like a old man
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Maybe i sound like an old lady 😂🤷♀️
justcurious2019
+1 y
too good looking to be a old lady
loveslongnailsMaster
+1 y
B, D & E
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
You see that i said im NOT into those right 😒
Walrus_auYoda
+1 y
Most of these are deal killers in one way or another
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
How so
Walrus_au
+1 y
Well, let's go down the list A - other way around, no smokers, weed or regular. Not into putting up with recreational drug users at all b - Partying is in my past. I now greatly regret every time I go out and have to babysit drunks. c - Someone anti-drinking is a no-go. I like the occasional drink. Just no longer too excess.
DizzyDesii
+1 y
The poll said im not into all of those
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Walrus_au
+1 y
d - The no sex thing, I may be open to working with that. But it may speak to a personality that doesn't gell with me. e - I prefer to spend more time at home. f - A lack of education is not a deal killer, an anti-intellectual attitude absolutly is. g - no standards suggests no self respect. Puts them on thin ice.
DizzyDesii
+1 y
F i said im more book smart. G... how donu have no respect for myself? I said i dont smoke/drink/party
Walrus_au
+1 y
g says that the person doesn't care and will date anyone. no standards, no self respect
DizzyDesii
+1 y
No G was for you guys to say that me not being into smoking/drinking/partying/ons and preferring to stay indoors/be booksmart wasn't a bother to y'all 🤦♀️
Walrus_au
+1 y
Ahhh
lucas262Yoda
+1 y
Never got into partying, or smoking. Tried drinking, felt like a hypocrite.
Honestly if I could get away with it id still play on the jungle gym at McDonald's, that was fun as hell.
Def not the only way to have fun and I don't see the appeal to these.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Lol i like the ballpit at mcdonalds! And yea i alsp agree im not into those things. So i assume u chose last option
lucas262
+1 y
Wish I could Hop in the delorian machine go back to 03 when they had jungle gyms and their milkshakes where the best. Good times
Jamie05rhsMaster
+1 y
I didn't see a problem with any of those.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
A lot have on other posts so i just wanted to see here
Dchrls78104Master
+1 y
None of the above.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
So the last option?
Dchrls78104
+1 y
... is actually attractive.
DizzyDesii
+1 y
Ok good
QuidthonianGuru
+1 y
Smoking is an immediate relationship terminator.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Reread it... i said im NOT into that on the polls
ChiPaPaGuru
+1 y
Honestly, I could tolerate cigarettes or marijuana (the others would be a turn off) and I drink (some, not to excess), so that wouldn't be a deal breaker. I don't party and wouldn't want one that parties, either. No sex for six months just doesn't feel like a relationship for me but to each there own. I'm rather bookish myself, so either one is fine as long as she's not an idiot.
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Trooper205Yoda
+1 y
Regardless of Circumstance, I will continue to pursue my Girl. We have both said it countless times: "I Love You through and through unconditionally"
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Thats nice
Tommy2017Xper 5
+1 y
Am ok with all except the no sex part. C'mon what's the big deal?
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
I’m fine giving handjobs early on.. but oral isn't until “i love you” so i’d say month 3 and sex is for “in love with you” which i’d say is around 6-9 month mark
Tommy2017
+1 y
How about me eating you out the first night?
DizzyDesii
+1 y
No that has to wait til month 3
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Tommy2017
+1 y
Oh wow. Can you tell me your reasoning behind that?
DizzyDesii
+1 y
I need buildup after we say I love you. I need to see it and feel it and give in return without having to use sex to express that
YHL6965Guru
+1 y
Honestly, no problem about any of these.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Ok good
bklynbadboy1Guru
+1 y
Definitely the drugs major major turn off
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
The poll said i am NOT into those
anton_deeXper 6
+1 y
The person's arrogance, pride and lack of humor.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Yea thats not on the poll
Clarke498Guru
+1 y
The sex thing is the only thing that'd bother me, but again there are ways around that.
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DizzyDesii
+1 y
Youd still get handjobs before the 1 month mark and blowjobs by the 3rd month mark 😂
Clarke498
+1 y
Lol, if the girl was awesome enough, i'm sure i'd let it go.
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7 44Most of these are pluses to me, certainly not turn offs.
Ok good
Hard cos it depends on how much I like them with what I'd deal with
Ahh ok
Put up with a lot for right girl
I picked "I would not like having to date for 6 months without sex"
However, I wouldn't stay for 6 minutes with:
"I seem uninterested. I'm not listening. I'm indifferent"
I wouldn't even stay 6 seconds with: ""I seem uninterested. I'm not listening. I'm indifferent" Literally. I wouldn't
yea. 6 seconds is more than long enough to realize that a woman is disrespectful and not paying attention and go talk to someone better.
You gotta here the song to understand
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UKp2CrfmVfw
@DizzyDesii oh yea.. now I see... well, I'm not antisocial, in fact I'm super social, and I've been to parties where I've asked myself that. A party is only as good as the people I misunderstood. I imagined talking to someone who was not listening and indifferent. While that rarely ever happens, there are women like that. Can't get much more disrespectful than that lol
The not listening is the worst one to me because it makes me feel like you are not interested
Ong thats a song 🤦♀️ Thats just a random pic
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UKp2CrfmVfw
Hahhaha well my bad put that in the misunderstood column and move forward having fun
Went with A
Oh so u smoke
No i’ve never smoked in my life
Thats what the poll says that i dont like to smoke
If the person is cool, has great conversation and doesn't get me killed I'm thinking I can overlook some character flaws.
Lol can't promise i wouldn't get you killed 😂
100% honest the same as you any smoking drinking partying i would be gone
a girl i used to work with would tell me she would go to a beach in new jersey and party with her friends i thought that was stupid of her like what happends if the cops show up she was also underage at the time 19
maybe i just sound like a old man
Maybe i sound like an old lady 😂🤷♀️
too good looking to be a old lady
B, D & E
You see that i said im NOT into those right 😒
Most of these are deal killers in one way or another
How so
Well, let's go down the list A - other way around, no smokers, weed or regular. Not into putting up with recreational drug users at all b - Partying is in my past. I now greatly regret every time I go out and have to babysit drunks. c - Someone anti-drinking is a no-go. I like the occasional drink. Just no longer too excess.
The poll said im not into all of those
d - The no sex thing, I may be open to working with that. But it may speak to a personality that doesn't gell with me. e - I prefer to spend more time at home. f - A lack of education is not a deal killer, an anti-intellectual attitude absolutly is. g - no standards suggests no self respect. Puts them on thin ice.
F i said im more book smart. G... how donu have no respect for myself? I said i dont smoke/drink/party
g says that the person doesn't care and will date anyone. no standards, no self respect
No G was for you guys to say that me not being into smoking/drinking/partying/ons and preferring to stay indoors/be booksmart wasn't a bother to y'all 🤦♀️
Ahhh
Never got into partying, or smoking. Tried drinking, felt like a hypocrite.
Honestly if I could get away with it id still play on the jungle gym at McDonald's, that was fun as hell.
Def not the only way to have fun and I don't see the appeal to these.
Lol i like the ballpit at mcdonalds! And yea i alsp agree im not into those things. So i assume u chose last option
Wish I could Hop in the delorian machine go back to 03 when they had jungle gyms and their milkshakes where the best. Good times
I didn't see a problem with any of those.
A lot have on other posts so i just wanted to see here
None of the above.
So the last option?
... is actually attractive.
Ok good
Smoking is an immediate relationship terminator.
Reread it... i said im NOT into that on the polls
Honestly, I could tolerate cigarettes or marijuana (the others would be a turn off) and I drink (some, not to excess), so that wouldn't be a deal breaker. I don't party and wouldn't want one that parties, either. No sex for six months just doesn't feel like a relationship for me but to each there own. I'm rather bookish myself, so either one is fine as long as she's not an idiot.
Regardless of Circumstance, I will continue to pursue my Girl. We have both said it countless times: "I Love You through and through unconditionally"
Thats nice
Am ok with all except the no sex part. C'mon what's the big deal?
I’m fine giving handjobs early on.. but oral isn't until “i love you” so i’d say month 3 and sex is for “in love with you” which i’d say is around 6-9 month mark
How about me eating you out the first night?
No that has to wait til month 3
Oh wow. Can you tell me your reasoning behind that?
I need buildup after we say I love you. I need to see it and feel it and give in return without having to use sex to express that
Honestly, no problem about any of these.
Ok good
Definitely the drugs major major turn off
The poll said i am NOT into those
The person's arrogance, pride and lack of humor.
Yea thats not on the poll
The sex thing is the only thing that'd bother me, but again there are ways around that.
Youd still get handjobs before the 1 month mark and blowjobs by the 3rd month mark 😂
Lol, if the girl was awesome enough, i'm sure i'd let it go.