Why do people have sex without a condom?
His reply was that he still pulls out and that he thinks the only disease that is a big deal anyways is AIDS.
I think this is a TERRIBLE PHILOSOPHY what's your take?
1. "I still religiously use condoms bc I'm terrified of getting an STD.". I've attended thousands of religious services for many different denominations and once never seen condoms used in any of them.
2. "His reply was that he still pulls out. . .". Relying on the withdrawal method for birth control of horribly, horribly stupid. He is a doctor of what? Art history?
3. "he thinks the only disease that is a big deal anyways is AIDS.". Well, herpes is a mofo. So is HPV.
The problem with condoms is that the sensation for a guy is greatly decreased. Think of a blind guy trying to read Braille wearing leather gloves.
I rarely use condoms but I also don't engage in casual sex. The last several relationships I have had involved both of us being tested for STD's before we got between the sheets.
So that's why some guys don't want to wear condoms.
Religiously is used as an adverb mean , never going without, it does not have any religious connotations. He is a 1st year Resident specializing In anastelogy. I agree I brought up. herpes and he was like I read after the first year people only have one break out a year.
Yeah, I know what you meant about "religiously," but it's weird to see someone say they religiously use condoms. He's just telling you what he thinks will convince you to go barebacked because it feels better. Next week, tell him that you took a home pregnancy test and it was positive and watch the expression on his face.
Religiously clean the bathroom religiously lock the door religiously use condoms no different get over it
That is a terrible philosophy, aids kills and herpes is with you for life. I belie e all others are curable but that dont make me ok with catching them.
I dont trust woman to not trap me so I would never put that much faith in the pull out. What if she holds me in like raps her legs around me.
Some guys say they loose a lot of feeling with it on, well tuff shit. Make then wear it, and if they take it off during I'd call the cops, that's rape as far as I'm concerned cause you did not consent to raw. Well maybe make sure it wasn't an honest accident, but I'm sure they would notice if it came off.
he's an idiot, and frankly I'm not convinced he's a doctor if he didn't mention or know that herpes isn't curable, its treatable but you will have it for ever and its gross and most people won't risk catching it just to sleep with you.
Update Yeah he's just an idiot, are sure he's a doctor?
Oh he is I have been seeing him since he was in medical school and he works down the street from where he works, his says his education makes them think that other than Aids the other ones are not a that big of a deal and I updated the question too.
but very good answer
... that's not even a philosophy. It's a fact that there are a multitude of STIs, not just AIDS. It's also a fact that even the usage of condoms doesn't offer 100% protection from STIs.
It's also a fact that using the withdrawal method as your only form of contraception is not that effective when it's your first time with someone new and the guy's control over holding back on when he cums is not that good.
Honestly, I'm surprised that guy you slept with is a doctor. He sounds dumb af.
We have dated on and off a while but yeah it a dumb philosophy and I guess the gave the stat of 96% effectiveness on the pull out which to me is insane bc how can you empirically test it, there is too many problems with the methodology. Also he think g. herpes is not that big a deal and to me it DEFINITELY is. I felt like a mom lecturing. But as you read the comments a lot of other people are not precautious.
Yeah... No! Doc! There are other diseases that would make you go "oh shit! Hepatitis C etc!" What a fuckin idiot! Nobody loves condoms but nobody loves a dumb fuck doctor, he needs one on both heads! Yea I am an idiot at times and then I go get tested and it is unnecessary and pretty intense stress. Cause all it takes is one time...
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To have babies. Everyone knows that.
We’d be in a longterm monagamous relationship and both get tested and see the results before sex
Exactly that's a safe route
He's a terrible doctor.
it's easier to give a blowjob why should i risk getting pregnant when i can give a blowjob i'm sure a man can be quite satisfied cumming in my mouth... i get excited giving one and feel satisfied via the intimacy of giving one... and if we become boyfriend and girlfriend that's another plateau... but who needs to take birth control and/or worry about getting pregnant and becoming a single mom... when a blowjob is so much more convenient for me and i hope the man as well... ps i never had a man pass on a blowjob yet.
I can understand that if you like it so much that no man has ever passed on one. I sure as hell would not
It's your choice but I don't get any pleasures from it and I don't do it unless I'm already having sex with the guy and to me it's just as far as sex, but you are right it's less risk, just not fun to me and a lot of work.
maybe i got used to giving blowjobs... i do enjoy them but i was in a 10 year relationship where i gave a blowjob everynight and nothing else something like 95% of the time... when giving one don't do what you can't do and maybe you'll like them more... enjoy his hard penis... enjoy his hardness for you
It's more pleasurable, but I do agree with you: The right thing to do is to wear one, even if I had unprotected sex with the only woman that I have had sex in my life, and still have to get tested just in case. I think that was a really risky thing to do, and not something I'd recommend to anyone, or to myself to do again, even. It's risking too much for nothing, really. Pleasure for a day versus a lifetime of suffering
His comment about dodging them by not having sex with black people sounds like utter BS to me, and yes, it's racist
right it made me feel bad for involved with him😔. I had no idea he was like this his friend group. in med school was very diversified.
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