Why the big double standards when it comes to threesomes, guys?

[KirstyW]

How come so many of you are down for you and two girls, but shut down at the thought of a girl with two guys?

[CarpX]

Adding another female body into the mix would enhance the experience for me. Adding another male body reduces it. I'm not saying it's fair, but that's just how I feel. My wife (unfortunately) feels the same way about adding another female body as I feel about adding another male one. I can't complain, because that would be unfair.

Even with porn, I prefer to watch a lesbian (or solo) scene for many reasons. When watching a M/F sex scene, I prefer when the featured dick is similar to my own and I'm focusing on her being penetrated. At most, I'm trying to put myself into the guy's mind (experiencing what he is), which I certainly wouldn't need to do if there were actually another guy having sex with the same girl that I am.

Honestly, before dating my wife, my buddy and I were given some pretty big signals from a girl whose house we were at (nobody else was there) that we could take things all the way together. Though, for a brief second it seemed like a cool idea to be high-fiving a good friend while being in opposite ends of the same girl, we both knew that wasn't how we would feel in the actual moment. We joke about how we "totally could have done a three-way with xxxx," but neither of us regrets passing on it.

[rjroy3]

I don't know if you can really call that a double standard, unless guys outside of the threesome have a problem with your 2 dude threesome, but those same guys have no problem with your guy and another girl in a threesome. Because they apply a different standard.

But for people within the relationship it's not the same thing. If he doesn't want another guy there, then that's his personal hangup. If you're okay with another girl, then that's not a hangup. If you're not cool with another girl and he talks you into it, but will not consider another guy. THEN that's a double standard. It's all about where you both are at sexually. Many women are open to doing sexual acts with other women, while straight men just aren't the VAST majority of the time and if they are... probably gay lol.

[KirstyW]

OK, I get what you're saying - until the last sentence, lol If they're both having sex with a girl, it's NOT gay...

[rjroy3]

Lol, I was referring to doing sexual acts with the same sex in that last part. Like a girl kissing a girl. Straight guys aren't open to kissing other dudes, unless they're gay the vast majority of the time.

[Vesuvius87]

I don't know about most women opening up to sex with another woman. Personally, the touch of being naked with another woman grosses me.

[Vesuvius87]

thought

[rjroy3]

@Vesuvius87 "Many women are open to doing sexual acts with other women,"

[evelyn26]

I believe it is because society is not so accepting of two guy homosexuals. Everyone is more okay with two girls kissing and holding hands etc. Gays are still shunned. Also, guys are not okay with being around another naked guy (heterosexuals.) They might see it as gay.
We girls are more okay with it because we help other friends dress, see them naked at the gym etc
Its every guys fantasy to have two girls at the same time.
I was asked to be in a threesome but I didn't want to. One because its a guy I'm with and I don't like sharing. If you are single go ahead and do what you want. If you are in a relationship, it will destroy it.

[IamJohntheGoat]

just because two guys in a three-way with a single female. does not make them homosexual. for that to be true then since I fucked the last girl i fucked every guy after me is a homo? just because this cock got her before him?

[evelyn26]

@IamJohntheGoat I meant they wouldn't want to touch the other guy in the three way. In a MMF threeway, guys stay away and just screw the girl. They don't kiss or play with the other guy because it's viewed as homosexual. For girls, in a FFM three way, the girls make out and okay with each other but aren't called lesbian. It's just sex. It's viewed as something hot to guys

[evelyn26]

Play * not okay

[IamJohntheGoat]

yes I see your point @evelyn26 that's the whole double standard thing again. I mean, it wouldn't bother me if my cock and the other guy's cock ran into each other as we were enjoying this girl. I guess some of us are more evolved than others. wouldn't you agree?

[evelyn26]

@IamJohntheGoat Yup. Like I wouldn't call you a homosexual for having another guys next to yours in a threesome. Its just sex.

[Anonymous]

Because being in the room with another penis means you will turn gay, and if you turn gay, that's almost as bad as being a woman. Women can be gay though, because they are lower beings and they can't help it. /s

[KirstyW]

100% gospel truth, lol

[IamJohntheGoat]

where did you come up with the "girls are lower beings thing?". Is it so prevalent that women are still viewed as second class? some day everyone will agree that women are not the weaker sex

[Anonymous]

I enjoy fucking two guys at once, but I don't want another woman anywhere near either of them. I'm very lucky that my hubby is OK with that arrangement.

[hero-hero]

Lol , So you have double standards? It is unfair !!

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero I guess to a degree it is. I think it's more of a double standard when a guy pressures his girlfriend into doing it with another girl, all the while refusing to do it the other way around.

[hero-hero]

I agree? But sorry i need to ask.. how come you are ok to be with another guy and you don't want your husband to be with another girl?

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero Don't be sorry, that's why we're all here. It's not that I don't want him to, it's just that I can't handle it. I know it doesn't seem fair, but I'm just too jealous. We've tried being with other couples and with single women, but I just can't do that anymore. Swinging was my husbands idea, and I gave it my best shot. So I guess we just reached a compromise. I would be OK if we stopped swinging all together, but my husband doesn't want to and is OK with our arrangement.

[hero-hero]

Thanks for being okay with the questions ! So you do it for your husband? You don't enjoy it?

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero Any woman who tells you she hasn't fantasized about having two guys at once, is most likely yanking your chain. It's not something that "good girls" are supposed to like or be thinking about. We both like it very much. I love being the center of attention. We have talked about trying a soft swap, but I'm not sure I could do that either.

[hero-hero]

What is a soft swap? So you like it ! Interesting !! lol , can i know your scenario?

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero My husband says that a soft swap is getting together with another couple and trading partners for oral and manual stimulation only. No intercourse. So you can see my hesitation about that also. What scenario?

[hero-hero]

I mean what do you do in a threesome? how do you start? how it goes and how it finishes?

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero It starts with some beer and wine and chit chat. Most of our guys are regulars. They are polite and respectful, and also dominant at the same time. What I mean is, they just take charge. They don't need any subtle hints or anything to get things rolling. With a new guy it's different. Then my husband takes the lead and guides the situation. He's very good at doing this. He'll usually tell me to put on a particular sexy outfit, because he wants the new guy's opinion on it. It's all about a second opinion, because maybe I thought I didn't look good in it. Of course he guy will throw out the compliments, no matter what. Then hubby will ask the guy how my tits look. Of course he will say something flattering. Then the last step is when hubby asks the guy to let him know if he likes the way they feel. That would be the GREEN light. This scenario has worked perfectly, many times. It makes for a smooth transition from the awkward part to the fun part.

[hero-hero]

But then the sex? starts with the new guy? in what position? and your husband? do you do double penetrations?

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero I never know how it's gonna start with the regular guys, because they can do whatever they want. But with the new guy, after he's been feeling my boobs, hubby asks him to taste them. While he's doing that, hubby gets rid of my panties. We generally move to the couch, so the guy can suck on my tits while hubby eats my pussy.

[hero-hero]

Thanks for answering all my questions.. I was very curious about it as i didn't do something like that before.. thanks :)

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero You're welcome. Is this something you want to do with a wife or girlfriend?

[hero-hero]

No , this is not for me at all.. I am more of a monogamy person.. I can't withstand another guy touching my girl ever.

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero But you would have a threesome with a married couple? Or would you only want two girls?

[hero-hero]

No , you misunderstood.. as i wouldn't like her to have another guy , i wouldn't have another girl.. we would just have each other and i think it would be enough , wouldn't it?

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero No, I meant if you are single. This post is all about threesomes, so I assume you have some sort of personal interest in the topic.

[hero-hero]

Oh , i see your point. Well , would i do it with a married couple? i think i wouldn't.. why am i here asking about threesomes? I don't know really ! may be just curiosity about it?

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero Maybe you should try role playing with your girl. You can use sex toys.

[hero-hero]

role playing is kinda fun , Thank you for the tip :) ...

[hero-hero]

Is it weird for you that your guy doesn't get jealous? does that ever made you think less of him?

[desidoll]

I like this answer 😂

[Opinion Owner]

@hero-hero He does get jealous, but at the same time he loves it.

[KirstyW]

So his enjoyment cancels out the jealousy?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it does. Actually, his jealousy helps fuel the fantasy part for him. Just look how popular porn is. The girls in these movies are behaving like sluts. The guys absolutely love watching sluts in action. I believe that almost all guys secretly fantasize about their wives or girlfriends being sluts. They would never openly admit it, but they love the thought. Some guys get overwhelmed by the fantasy and decide to give it a try. But for some of them, watching another guy fuck their girl is too intense and the jealousy is too powerful. They put an end to it and just put the fantasy back in their heads. But some guys try it and yes they are jealous, but not enough to stop it. Their desire for it to happen keeps the jealously in check. Those guys get hooked for life.

[KirstyW]

Would you mind dropping me a pm?

[Opinion Owner]

I'll try.

[NearlyNapping]

This is not a double standard. You are basically asking why guys want to have sex with women and not men. Whether they want to have sex with one woman, or two, or ten, it's still having sex with women.

[Justacatlady]

I've have done a male male me threesome. It was okay. My favorite is me and make and girl. Woman are so sexy 💕

[Brah63926]

Most girls are straight girls are attracted to men not women

[Justacatlady]

@Brah63926 I'm bisexual and I love them both

[tatibabe26]

Your a skank lmao

[Justacatlady]

@tatibabe26 you don't know me. Don't be rude

[Brah63926]

Most girls are straight

[America1st]

Men find two females together a beautiful sexy thing. It's a big fantasy for a lot of men. I know from experience when I was young that it's not near as good as the fantasy. I'm sure many will tell you it's wonderful. Men and many women have no interest in seeing man on man sex. Women tend to view a threesome with two women as a better threesome as well. Most people are not into sex that is just an entertainment thing. I'm talking about mature men and women.

[Vesuvius87]

I actually have no interest in seeing same gender sex couples whether is two women or two men having sex.

[America1st]

@Vesuvius87 Good for you. I'll never understand a man or woman wanting their partner to have sex with another person. That shows the person has no respect for themselves as well no respect for their SO.

[denisenic01e]

Women do not prefer a threesome with 2 women.. Unless they're actually attracted to women. I would find a MMF threesome wayyyy more attractive than a FFM.

[dragonfly6516]

Because straight men are not sexually aroused by the thought of another naked man? Also, most men do like to share, but it's an ego boost to think that two women would do him together, that they would share for his enjoyment.

[dragonfly6516]

I'm in an open relationship, and even I'm not into this. It's on thing to have someone all to yourself behind closed doors, but another matter entirely watching the person you do that with, doing it to someone else literally in front of you.

[vishna]

Righttttttttt. The guys I've been with are open to the idea of a threesome when single, but when I say I am open to the same-they are repulsed. C'mon guys. Reminds of the Dave Chapelle skit.

[KirstyW]

I know, right, lol?

[RokFerry]

because some men beleave that one man should be enough for one woman, and this makes them feel inadequate, me personally went out with some real barbie slut years ago and this girl could fuck, she could eat 20 men for breakfast, 100 men for lunch and a 1000 men for supper. She became manager of mcdonalds in no time.

[histiletto]

Shame on you people for your immoral acts. Just because you can does not mean it is acceptable or should be toyed with. Sexual activities are wonderful consummations for a committed marriage relationship between wife and husband. One of the end results is the creation of posterity, should things happen properly. If your intent is just for self gratification, then you may get what you seek, but will most likely loose the respect, integrity, and trustworthiness for a true committed relationship. If you think I'm backing religious concepts here, that's your problem. My perspective is only to promote the better way to live life to its fullest, which seems to be degraded by doing any sexual intercourse for any purpose or activity outside of marriage. True loving can bring you that peace of mind, confidence, and outlook that is goal worthy in bettering all relationships.

[Phantomium]

I have zero desire to see a girl I'm in a relationship (and most likely in love with) being plowed right in front of me. I also have no intention to be with someone else while being in a relationship even if she's OK with it. I'd say that's a fair deal. In fact any form of [insert number]-somes is a big red flag for me and a potential deal breaker.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am not down for any threesomes. This is just an excuse for a guy to bang another chick in a way that he can say he wasn't cheating.

[madhatters4]

seems kind of obvious why... most guys are into women. they are attracted to and turned on by women and thus are not turned on or attracted to men. so a threesome involving a second guy involves a person that would potentially turn them off whereas two women in the threesome will turn them on perhaps twice as much

it's not really a double standard

[OliviaSmith]

Because women are dumb enough to allow it.

[matchrestore]

I personally don't want to have a threesome, but if I did I'd be open to both.

[MrMysteryMan]

Probably most guys love the thought of more pussy than more cock.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Just haven't met the right guys, lol :-)

[godfatherfan]

1) , no guy wants to be around another dick.
2) no way in hell I am sticking my cock into another guys cum. A dick you can just wipe off. You can't clean out and scrape clean a pussy.
3) 3somes are just disgusting. I have no desire to be with 2 women at the same time. i had 1 chance when I was in the military and I turned it down.

[Gonetowardthewind]

If I wanted a ffm threesome (not saying I would) then I would expect my partner (if and when I have one) two expect us to have a mmf threesome. And to be honest I wouldn't care, maybe even if I wanted to, I could experiment, but I would be extremely hard pressed to experiment.

[Riggers]

I think both are fairly disgusting tbh.

[nevermoregirl7]

Lol. Same debate I have with my boyfriend. I have a huge mfm fantasy. My boyfriend of course wants me and another girl. But I just can't with the boobs and the vagina and no thanks. It doesn't tickle me like a man does.

I feel like guys just expect us to be sexually open because we are naturally open people.

[KirstyW]

Hadn't thought of it that way - how do you mean?

[nevermoregirl7]

Like, in general, we don't mind touching our gal pals in ways guys would never touch each other. We don't mind hugging, looking at each others butts to make sure it looks good, kisses on the cheek, cuddling each other. And I am saying this is just in general, because personally I don't feel comfortable except for the hugging part. Men generally communicate by handshakes and gestures.

[KirstyW]

I understand, yeah.

[Azirish1]

Me personally if you communicate that fantasy to him, and he doesn't want to make it come true, find someone else. If I'm in a relationship and have the power to make a fantasy come true, I'm all in!!

[normalice]

maybe it seems a little bit gay. Or perhaps it's the smell? I don't honestly know. Personally, I'd rather have an MMF with a girl who was into it, than an MFF with two girls who were not.

Unless you're talking about while in a relationship? In that case each person has their own tolerance for how 'open' the relationship can be. If the girl doesn't mind her boyfriend poking other girls right in front of her, that's up to her. It doesn't meand the guy automatically won't mind other guys poking his girlfriend right in front of him.

[AleDeEurope]

It's not a double standard. If you're not into guys, it's normal you don't want to do a threesome with another guy

[anaspie]

I think the biggest would be the MMF to FFM threesomes. For whatever reason if you have a MMF threesome your a whore but if its a FFM threesome it's totally normal... if someone could explain that to me that would be great

[TaureanBull81]

It shouldn't matter as to the type of 3sum people have. I agree with you @anaspie

[sawno]

For others i don't know, but for me its quite simple logic.
I am streight so i don't like the company of another naked guy in the bedroom. The scenario i'd consider a FFM is if my girlfriend would be bisexual and craves female company. If she was straight as well i wouldn't even dare ask it of her.

[IEat70sBush]

If she wants 2 guys she can go for it if I can get 2 girls. I just wouldn't want to be one of them in the MFM, having another dude's oock that close to mine in a DP or even being naked in the same room with me just ain't gonna happen, way too distracting to enjoy and I probably wouldn't even be able to stay hard. Dunno why, but even when a girl considers herself straight she's more comfortable being close to another naked girl than a straight guy being close to another naked guy.

[JayCasper777]

If I'm with two girls it's a threesome. Two guys... It's just two guys fucking a girl.
Two guys doesn't count as a threesome really lol

[Noleenc]

Why?

[JayCasper777]

would just feels like I'm fucking a girl with a buddy. if I'm fucking two girls its me having a threesome with two girls cos there's more female sexiness

[Tunnel_Weeks]

Maybe women rather it be 2 men and 1 woman and men rather it be 2 women and 1 man. Most people are heterosexual and prefer being the only member of their sex in 3-somes.

[Paultripps]

Bingo

[Tunnel_Weeks]

B-I-N-G-O and Bingo was his Name-O

[phyllisisabelle]

I guess one girl can handle two guys but one guy can't handle two girls? A girl can take two men in her at once but a guy can't enter two girls at once? I have never done a two girls one guy but I have done several two guys and me. I wouldn't be adverse to two girls and a guy but afterwards he would be able to stand up for a week. :)

[phyllisisabelle]

Sorry. That should be he wouldn't be able to stand up for a week.

[Brah63926]

Most girls are straight

[phyllisisabelle]

Are you sure? Besides it won't be the girls making out with each other anyway.

[MorganR1994]

Did you like your experience?

[phyllisisabelle]

Loved it.

[phyllisisabelle]

I should say loved them since I have done them more than once. Its a heady thing for a girl having two guys especially if the guys want to make sure they please her.

[MorganR1994]

It's been on much mind but I don't know :/

[phyllisisabelle]

Then dont if you dont know. It depends on how you feel toward your partner. Is it worth it that you could lose her? Love should trump lust every time.

[MorganR1994]

I'm sure my boyfriend would but would want another girl vs guy

[phyllisisabelle]

But how do you feel? Are you not enough for him? And if its two guys and you will he feel like he isn't enough for you? It gets crazy. Like I said love over lust. Lust is fleeting. Love lasts forever. Go into this with your eyes wide open if you do it.

[MorganR1994]

I just want to experience it someday

[phyllisisabelle]

Lets just say the time I did it along with someone I thought I loved we ended up breaking up. But it was just one nail in the coffin full of nails for us.

[phyllisisabelle]

Then do it with two guys neither one being someone you love and make sure its two guys who want to please you not just themselves then. Nothing sucks worse than having two guys just using your body for their pleasure. That sucks.

[MorganR1994]

While in a relationship? Lol

[phyllisisabelle]

Good luck. If you want you can Follow me and if you have any more questions we can talk. Right now I have to get to work. Take care.

[phyllisisabelle]

Well no. Only if you are NOT in a relationship.

[TripleAce]

Girls seem to fiddle around with their girlfriends a lot a lot more than guys fiddle around with the boys..
Girls be kissing, touching each other... all kinds

[dionyxes]

because it's hard for me to stay hard around other guy's but it's easy when there's 2 girl's

[0112358]

Well, i'm not really excited about the idea of MFF. I find -watching- a MMF more hot. However, i'd be more comfortable -having- a MFF if my partner really wanted one.

Ultimately i'm just not jealous of other women. If a partner wanted to be sexual with another woman, i'd feel very little jealousy at all.

I'd guess that in that at least i'm typical. So men who -want- a mff just want it, but a mmf they find to jealousy inducing (or offputting). As to why mff end up, I think? being more common... I'd suggest it either comes down to women being a little less jealous about sex without emotion than men are, or because more women then men are bi, so both partners find the mff interesting.

[evenlift]

Being down with something is not the same as insisting on it, though.

[Nephilim000]

i don't care if a girl has two guys. i just don't want to be there. i personally am not down with the whole notion of a threesome. i don't think its fair to all parties involved and quite frankly I think one woman can be headache enough. two would kill me

[Paultripps]

I don't want to watch my girl getting penetrated by another. That doesn't happen during a fmf. I understand if she isn't not down seeing me have sex either, but I leave that to her. Many women don't no want to have sex with another guy (already have that) but are curious about girls. Most guys don't want to have sex with the other guy in a fmf. But the girl does want to explore the other girl. Hence why it isn't different... even if you call bullshit

[Happycamper76]

I am in a Poly triad with 2 women. They are both bi and in this relationship we all get what we want. Both girls get a relationship with both male and female and me being straight am with 2 amazing ladies who I love with all my heart. I think guys can be intimidated easily and by her being with another man he is loosing a part of her.

[OliviaSmith]

I read your post three times. I don't get it. Where does the other guy fit into a triad with two girls and a guy?

[Happycamper76]

If they wanted another arrangement that included men then that would be fine. Some people are possessive and don't have the capacity to love more than 1 and some do. I think people like us are somewhat rare. I love both of them and want them to be free to have whatever experiences they feel they need. They have decided the arrangement we have now works best. Sorry if that wasn't clear before hopefully this helps clear it up.

[OliviaSmith]

Yes, thank you. I was confused about the " tri" part and then counting on my fingers. Your post seemed like one too many people. So I guess you are open to go beyond the tri thing. I saw a video about this on youtube. It seems to make sense on a small scale, but but once kids are involved... this thing seems to get very complicated. lol

[Happycamper76]

We have 2 kids and have been together for 16+ years with my wife and we have been with our girlfriend for 7 years. We are a happy blended family. I find if it was just 2 adults involved and not 3 people usually don't see anything wrong with it but when it's a Triad most common response is what about the kids? They have 3 people that love them and would do anything to make there lives full of joy, support and encouragement.

[OliviaSmith]

I wasn't judging, but you have to know how the dynamics would seem complicated if you're not in the loop. I talked to a lady once on a chat site. She said her boyfriend was married. I was a bit shocked. Then she said her married boyfriend's wife, had a boyfriend. Then I was shocked even more. Then she said the four of them went on a vacation together. It was that state that has the big motorcycle rally every year. (Cant' remember which one) They stayed in separate hotel rooms. What I mean by that is, the married couple were apart in this situation. During the day they would sight see and appear to anyone as regular couples. No one knew that they had swapped partners for this vacation. Again, I'm not judging. But that is really some serious shit for the average person to wrap their mind around. lol

[Happycamper76]

I didn't feel you were judging me at all. I know the dynamic is not what people are familiar with. We don't swap it's just us 3. We are in a ethical non monogamy relationship meaning we are only with each other. What makes our kind of relationship work or fail is the exactly the same as a "traditional" relationship communication.

[OliviaSmith]

OK, so the part that confuses me now, is your use of the term that you are in a "non monogamous" relationship. The part that interests me in all of this, is the group/monogamy part. To explain this better let me make up a story based on one of the videos I watched. I have two husbands/boyfriends. One is exclusive with me, and one is not. The one who is not exclusive is free to date other people (Let's call the non exclusive guy, Fred, and the other guy, Tom) Tom is only with me because and that is our rule. Fred has two girlfriends. One of those girls are exclusive and one is married... Do you see what I mean? I'm not trying to make this sound bad, but some of those scenarios sounds like a fucking disaster. I'm seriously not trying to make light of this, but that's one of the videos I saw. The one video I liked, was when there was a lady with two husbands/boyfriends. The video made the whole thing out to be blissful. Someone would vacuum, someone would cook,

[OliviaSmith]

They cut me off! lol But at the end of the day they all slept together and were happy. But then in one point in the video, one of her guys was preparing to go out on a date. The female of the group was obviously upset about this, but she tried to be supportive. I'm sorry for rambling on, but I think it would be nice to have two boyfriends/husbands, but I would need the whole thing to be monogamous between us all.

[Happycamper76]

Ok both videos are "ethical non monogamy" but so is a 20 man on 1 girl gangbang if all parties are in agreement with no deception. Now the video you were drawn to is what I have just reversed with 2guys and a girl. That is a triad. The first sound to me like a quad with metamor/perimore on the side. That is a difficult to manage situation with all of the different people and different rolls​ and levels of commitment. I like to keep it basic with just 3. Are you looking for bi men or straight.

[OliviaSmith]

I don't know why you mentioned gangbang. I only meant that the allure of the poly thing, to me, would be to have to guys for me only. We would all be faithful to each other. That's the only thing that would work for me.

[Happycamper76]

the problem is with the polyamory is a catch all category. It includes any situation that involved more than 2 people. I mentioned it to demonstrate how far apart the 2 ends of the category can be. This is where most peoples confusion starts. Typically when people find out my living/relationship situation they say so you and your wife are swingers, kinky fetish or open relationship. The simple truth is we are a normal loving 3 adult family with 2 kids. Besides the fact there are 3 people that sleep together we are mostly vanilla. we share a bed, chores, raising our children, finances and everything else that a family does we just do it with 3 of us.

[Happycamper76]

You sound like us in reverse. My only suggestion is you may want to find an established Bi male couple that wants a girl. You picked the trickiest triad to manage. I have rarely see mmf with 2 straight men work. That doesn't mean it won't. It just helps if all involved are in to both of the other people in the triad.

[OliviaSmith]

OK, well thanks for explaining your situation better with me. I need to sleep now, but I learned a lot. The only reason I'm mentioning this stuff to you, is because you said the poly word. That is a very rare thing to hear in the real world. I don't think it's a bad thing, but that one video got me thinking about it. And yes, I would be selfish and not want another lady. This isn't just a sexual thing it's just the way it is. I can't tell you the name of the video I was watching, but it looked so nice. It was like three happy people sleeping in bed. The video went to crap when the one guy was going to go out for a date. lol Thanks for the chat... goodnight.

[Happycamper76]

I wouldn't have it any other way. It is Beautiful when it's right. I hope I helped Good night and good luck finding your Triad.

[Prof_Don]

because for many straight guys, the mere presence of a naked man will kill his sexual vibe.

[VirginiaBeachBum]

That statement doesn't apply to me. I have no problem with MFMs.

[KLTheErudite7229]

I think it is more of a preference thing. Some people don't mind seeing a girl and a guy naked, some don't want to see the same gender naked (i. e. most guys finds it disgusting to see another boner/ a boner...). I am not sure why girls seem more comfortable seeing other girls naked as I have seen a lot of girls at a Burlesque show last time and cheered. I have been in to a spa and sauna place where is gender separated and people are asked to not wear anything before going to any of the spa, not a big deal to me (but you obviously gets in trouble if doing anything 'inappropriate').

[Kakaky]

Why would a guy want to share a woman with men when they are wired to be with as many women as possible?

[chives]

exactly

[Jamesguy1985]

Well, dofficult to say since Id be okay with either, but it probably stems from fear of inadequacy or mild homophobia (not in the really bad way media portrays, just irrational fear)

[Phoenix98]

Well I'm against threesomes both ways so it's not really a double standard for me.

[tyber1]

We don't want to have sex with another guy, what's difficult to understand about that?

[KirstyW]

But you wouldn't be, what's difficult to understand about that?

[tyber1]

Even so we would also prefer to have sex without another guy in the room.

[CoolSky01]

gayyyyyyyyyyyyyy

[IamJohntheGoat]

I have had many threesomes. Only once was it with two girls. So I am curious too why the difference. Probably because most guys think they gonna go gay afterwards.

[guywhogetsit]

I belive some men don't like the "competition" of another man, low self confidence, "does she like him more?"
And perhaps a homophobic stance, "I can't see a naked man, that makes me gay" and other bullshit.
A man confident in his own body and sexuality wouldn't have this problem.

[KirstyW]

Can you follow me back? I want to ask you something.

[guywhogetsit]

Followed, ask away :)

[avengergirly]

I think it's called hypocrisy!

[front2back]

How about just not worry about threesomes?

[ravedave]

This question is ridiculous. Straight men aren't attracted to other guys so why would they want another naked guy in the room with them?

[ravedave]

Yeah yeah, downvote me for stating facts. Lmfao you people are nuts if you don't think this is true.

[Browneye57]

Cuz a normal hetero guy isn't wanting to 'do' another guy.

And these never turn out like you had hoped they would. Someone always gets their feelings hurt. It's also highly likely you'll blow out your original relationship in the process.

[Browneye57]

On update... What exactly is 'not enough for us' mean to you? What does that have to do with a three-some? It's not about what? In your picture - look at the facial expression of the three. The girl is smiling happily and the guys are not. Guys will tend think more openly about WMW with the idea that he would be doing them both at the same time. A strong guy can outlast one woman, certainly do two. At least that's the idea. Anyway, my original answer stands - these things never turn out like you hope they will.

[NYkid27]

Most guys don't like sharing. I'd never have a mmf threesome so I wouldn't ask to have a ffm threesome

[KirstyW]

Which is perfectly fine. You don't have the double standard thing going on.

[NYkid27]

Yeah I try to be consistent but I think guys usually are hypocritical about that because 2 girls is a huge turn on and they don't like sharing

[Zeusr]

true that😂😂😂

[bloodmountain1990]

I wouldn't be involved in a threesome with another dude because it would make it hard for me to get "hard".

[genericname85]

cause obviously most guys like pussy and not dick :P lots of girls have the opposite "double standard".

[Robin48]

I do not have to concern myself with this because I know sex is only to be between to people. One male and one female. It only the husband and wife. I do not support threesome.

[soul1112]

Because I legimately wouldn't enjoy contact of that sort with another guy.

[BobbyC65]

I've never had a threesome.

[singlebee]

We like the thought of two women in our bed and not of another man getting lucky with my girlfriend...
That's why the double standard and it's not ever gonna change... so DEAL WITH IT

[Nice_Guy_Last]

I'm bi, but I guess I would say I am monoamorous, so I'd never personally want a threesome, mmf or mff. That being said, I have no qualms about them happening, and I have been known to enjoy watching both variations online.

[Iraqveteran666]

Because we dont want a 3some with a guy. It's not a double standard and no one should be pressured or coerced into any sexual activity as that's a form sexual and domestic abuse.

[Iraqveteran666]

No it's because another man's dick is not a turn on, it's gross to cross swords for most guys.

[Dale1982]

There's a reason men were given one cock and women one pussy. 2 become 1 not 3 or 4

[COCOCHANEL]

the one time i almost had a threesome was with 2 guys at a love hotel in ikebukuro
one was really hot the other was not not so he just watched and cheered on his sempai

[king_casanova]

Because most guys aren't gay

[RationalMale]

If you have to ask, there's no point explaining to you.