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Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?
Ladies, please be careful about letting someone videotape you...
https://www.forbes.com/sites/daniellecitron/2014/05/15/nonconsensual-taping-of-sex-partners-is-a-crime/
Would You Have Sex With Someone Who Told You They Needed To Video Tape It As Proof Of Your Consent?
Brainsbeforebeauty Editor
Should People Card Someone Before Having Sex With Them?
Ladies, please be careful about letting someone videotape you...
https://www.forbes.com/sites/daniellecitron/2014/05/15/nonconsensual-taping-of-sex-partners-is-a-crime/
Updates:
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To anyone responding this would be a good idea, or thinks that's necessary
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What Girls & Guys Said
41 78yeah 🤷♂️ i mean i have nothing to lose
That's not true if there tape for in the wrong hands... None should have to see to being videotaped as proof of consent... If can't trust the person having sex with it they don't trust them that's not sometime to be having sex with anyway in my opinion
i mean like it certainly can cause a lot of problems if the tape got leaked or something like that, and i wouldn't think that a lot of people would ever agree to it. personally i just already have done some risky things and have pictures up on my instagram and stuff that are a little more revealing so, i dont think anyone who knew me would be suprised if a tape got leaked. but that's a pretty specific situation and i don't think its smart for people to agree with being recorded XD
No, absolutely not.
Right! Out of ALL the crazy things I've seen, read on here, that has to be up there as one of the craziest things I've read/heard someone say "Men should videotape the sex to show she consented and they have proof to show the courts and women should get used to the idea" ... TF my reply was..."Then men should get used to not having sex then" cuz yeah that's some BS there!
I'd totally do it. As long as it was not a trick or anything. To me, if that's what makes them comfortable, it makes them comfortable. However, video taping the whole sexual experience might be a bit much
Please don't ever let someone do that! And don't even sleep with someone that doesn't trust you or you don't trust. That's not what sex should be.
Fair enough
I just had a guy ask me this, I told him to get the hell away to me and never call me again.
I was so insulted and pissed
Right, I agree... But for some asshat to think this should become the norm and women should get used to the idea, yeah that's friggin crazy shit there
No, I'm jusy going to think that their lying about videoing me as proof of "consent".
More like wanting to video me and uploading it PORNHUB with out my consent.
Besides, that's too damn crazy, but if they insist on me giving them proof of consent then give me a damn contract to sign or some shit, idc.
There are other things you can do for "proof of consent" than you making a damn porno.
Right exactly.. But I don't even want sex with someone that worrying about period of consent, that shoes lack of trust, and just like I don't fuck people I can't trust, I wouldn't if someone don't trust me either
Nope
👍👍👍 right, some people tripping for real.. Cuz anyone try that shit on me they gonna get a videotape if the inside of their asshole
Lmfao.🤪
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Hell no
Right! I couldn't believe that user said that and actually thinks it should be a thing. And that there another user in this post that thinks it's ok to secretly record sex
I definitely would not that is how shit ends up on the internet. If he was really worried I would sign something
Right! And I wouldn't even sign something. To me that shows lack of trust, and I can't trust you or you can't trust me, sex ain't happening
Yea I get what ur saying but I can understand if they wanted to be caution
But if women can trust men not to be one that really is a rapist then men should trust women not to be one that falsely accuses... People forget real rape does happen and happens way more than false allegations of rape do... It's a matter of trust, and all the more reason to know who you sleeping with
That’s true it is probably only valid in the case of celebrities, plus you can withdraw consent at anytime
Uh... NO!
It sounds like an easy way to blackmail really stupid people.
Right! People going too far with their crazy
Only if he recorded everything during as well, in case he tried something that I didn't consent to
I think its a great Idea. It's good to have your legal counsel there as well to advise if any illegal business is going on through out the act. And a few trusted friends or even your grandmother from start to finish just to make sure you have someone watching your back... so to speak. It's a small price to pay to assure your doink session complies with state and federal regulations.
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Neither they, nor you, seem to understand it makes little difference, if the matter came to court.
A video alone is not proof of consent
Don't say me. I'm not the one thinking this is a good idea. And to me this isn't even about consent. This is more about not letting someone have that kind of video in their possession. They could leak it in the internet, sell it, user it to blackmail... If a man so worried about having sex and afraid she'll cry rape (which happens way less then men on here claim) then maybe they should just abstain from having sex instead of thinking they can force women to let them video it
Could avoid false rape accusations
No instead you'd have people blackmailing or selling or leaking tapes If you can't trust the person you having sex with, then don't have sex with them...
Hell no
Right! That's fucking crazy shit, excuse my language, but that's some BS there, but sadly there would be some females that would fall for that
I think very few would
I would like to agree there but you do hear of it happening
Ugh...
No I am a very private person.
Yes, it’s no problem but before hand if you feel uncomfortable being recorded you could always make a contract in which the film can’t be exposed to anyone else outside of whom is involved in the creation of this sexual experience. Fact is this world is bent to the point everything has the ability and opportunity to be used against you whether intent is wrong or right.
Sure, as long as they signed an agreement that it would never be shown to anyone else, or lost or stolen, and if so, they would have to pay me for any damages suffered.
I still wouldn't, not would I sign a form of consent.. If sometime doesn't trust me, they sex just ain't happening period
I would specially if I had a lot of money or was famous. Some people will do anything in order to try and get some of your money. So, Brainsbeforebeaury, how long do you need to know somebody before you trust them? I don't completely trust anybody until after I've known them a long time, because that's the only amount of time the person has passed increasingly bigger and bigger events leading you to trust them. They say it's ok for a kiss on the 1st date, and sex maybe by the 3rd date. So your going to trust people after only seeing them 3 times? Or are you not getting laid for a very long long time?
Nope not a chance. I’m not that stupid. If my partner video taped me without my express permission, they’re going to jail. If they showed anyone, they’re dead. End of story.
Right! There's a reply on this post where guy said he'd rather face charges for video without consent than false really allegations TF ! That he sees nothing wrong with secretly recording sex, that's fucked up, and these men need to quit it with these false rape allegations, most rapes reported aren't false, it's a much smaller percentage that are
Exactly!!
That guy was not only sexist but racist... And see, I wouldn't have sex with someone like that anyways and I'm sure a lot of others wouldn't anyways so he can put this camcorder down
No our bedroom life is me and my partner only. I never shag and tell.
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Hell no!!!
Right!! That's a crazy ass excuse there!