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Would you rather be able to have sex when ever you wanted regardless of weather your spouse was in the mood or?

Only be able to have sex when your spouse was in the mood?
Would you rather be able to have sex when ever you wanted regardless of weather your spouse was in the mood or?
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  • Definitely 'A'.
    The sexual appetite is primal, not necessarily always lovey dovey.

    A guy should be willing to fuck her anytime she is in the mood. But the thing about guys is, they have to get hard and there are occasions when that might not be happening for one reason or another. And if he's not hard, he can't penetrate her juicy peach. In that case, he should know how to eat and finger her until she is satisfied.

    Women, on the other hand, know what their pussy is for. Of course she ideally wants to have a girl boner before she gets fucked. But her hole can be penetrated even if she's not turned on. Women do it all the time. All it takes is a bit of spit to lubricate their opening in order to get started.

    A women can suck dick anytime. But she should also be willing to let her man fuck her pussy whenever he wants. There isn't always time for foreplay. And a good woman will spread her legs or bend over anytime, knowing how much pleasure and relief it gives her partner. I never had a girlfriend who wasn't more than willing.

    I, personally, find it SUPER hot on occasion to bend her over something, pull down her panties, and take her like a starving beast. And it doesn't hurt her a bit. Most women actually love it.

    • I would assume a good and loving partner would want her to enjoy being penetrated, which is nearly impossible to do if she is not physically aroused

    • A good woman does enjoy being penetrated. Even if she's not fully aroused beforehand, she's glad that her partner is hungry for her and she enjoys the feeling of cock inside her. Having sex doesn't ALWAYS mean being made love to for an hour.

    • Oh really @netsapien are you a woman? do you know what it feels like to be penetrated when you're not aroused? Do you have any idea on how sexual arousal works and how that effects female anatomy.

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  • if both are not in the mood it's just sad... very sad. I know it's not typical for men maybe. But circumstances like that left me... in tears. I wasn't ready for it and I should have waited. Idc what other people say. Not all guys are just d2f like that. Some of us also require a special intimacy before that happens. And if a woman is not feeling up to it then it's boarding rape imho. Maybe not outright but you are pressuring her and I dont like that sh*t one bit. I'll call a dude out for that sh*t.

    • I've seen that happen a lot unfortunately

    • sorry I should have said if *EITHER* wasn't in the mood its sad

    • just seeing it portrayed in a movie is hard enough. In real life i'd hate to see it. there are options and alternatives. Some women they just can't much. they let the husband have another outlet. That doesn't make it right and I'm not advocating for it. But it does prevent a divorce because a lot of men are ill disciplined and super thirsty like that. They'll pick a woman out together, arrange times, etc. Other alternatives is to try to be enthusiastic enough to masturbate him, allow him a toy or doll and be nude around it. I don't know everyone is different and everyone has different boundaries and what bothers them. Some guys will weight the love they have for your over the cock in their pants. But others will not. And sometimes resentment forms depending on the economic situation of the household. If he's a mega bread winner he might expect more of you or something. Or if he's doing most of the work inside and outside of the house. Things to consider. I dont have a solid answer because every couple is different.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If my partner's mood could not be turned on then I don't want to push him to do something sexual. But does not need to be in the mood from the start.. first sit and relax, just be physically close and intimate might switch the mood on, else it is also super nice to cuddle :)

  • My partners always up for it no matter what! But I wouldn’t want to have sec if he wasn’t interested it wouldn’t seem right

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Only in the mood.

    i really don’t like having she’s when one or both of you are off.

    it really needs both to be up for it and wanting it.

    also from my point of view, having sex with a person that does not really want to, is just another form of abuse.

  • Well I'm going to have to be selfish on this one I would have to say whenever I wanted I'm single right now but I would always hope that's the girl that I date always w a n t s it to for me sex is more than just sex there's a bond that connection then I want to share and feel when making love. I really didn't like answering this way but I have to be honest

  • See.. this is a strange one.

    Since I will give it on demand, I expect to get it on demand! With the exception of physical ailments, I demand it. My mood is always on the 'willing and ready' mode.

    If the person I was with, somehow, found herself 'not' in the mood not due to some physical ailment... I'd start considering a trade in... which means I would've probably not have married someone that could find herself 'not' in the mood in the first place.

  • if she's not into it... then I would not care for any of it.. it would be pointless to me

  • After 3 relationships… I’m tired of always having to chase sex. If you don’t wanna you come to me I’m done initiating it.

  • You would... just not again.

    Mainly as you will be in jail for rape, or murdered in your sleep.

  • Brain #2 would like to have sex whenever. Brain #1 knows that would mean having sex with a limp noodle, so brain #1 rules. When she's in the mood is so much better... for both of us.

    by the way, sometimes, she's not in the mood and recognizes that I am, and she consents to sex anyway. I love mu SO.

  • It is important for her to be in the mood. I find that respecting when she isn’t in the mood pays off is good for the relationship and pays off in terms of sex in the long run.

  • I would like it on demand.

    • Even if she didn’t enjoy it?

    • Once we got going she would come around.

    • And if she didn’t?

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  • Umm... the chemistry between us... as long as I haven't pissed her off today, if I start kissing her neck, boobs and then dive in with my tongue she's never NOT been in the mood.
    If she lets me hug her... then I know that I have to earn her so I perform... and then after aggressive negotiations are finished we talk things through.
    Women are SOO much more logical post orgasm... in my humble experience...🙄

    • That sounds nice, being able to turn your partner on so easily.

    • Both of us can't explain it. We've never had this kind of chemistry with anyone else in our lives. We know we're blessed and can't take credit for anything other than continuing to treat each other with the utmost respect even on those odd occasions we're angry with each other.

  • No, she should also be turned on. That being said what I’ve found is if I initiate she will get turned on

  • Just because people are a couple and devoted their sex life only to each other, doesn't obligate them to have sex whenever, wherever, however the other one wants it.


    Even a wife can get raped by husband and vice versa with the aid of viagra. Sexual harasment without actual penitration, can often happen in relationships.


    Just because couples are in love doesn't mean there aren't any limits.

  • If my spouse/girlfriend isn't in the mood, it's not going to be much fun. If she isn't in the mood far too often, then I'm with the wrong girl !!

  • I prefer to only have sex when my partner is in the mood because I care about them and part of my pleasure is giving them pleasure

  • If she was interested in CNC, then the first one. Otherwise, the second one.

  • Well waiting for her to be in the mood isn't working. It's been a really long time

  • Assuming I were to get married, when she wanted. If that means not much at all, so be it.

  • In the mood. Touching and being intimate with someone that doesn't desire it feels weird.

    The energy should be mutual.

  • It’s not very fun if she isn’t in the mood. It just feels wrong. However, if it’s been a while since we’ve had sex and she isn’t in the mood but wants me to be pleasured, then I would. I let her do the same to me if I’m sleeping and she’s in the mood. She has Carte Blanche over me when she needs sex too.

  • Do I want what I want or what someone else wants? The first sounds more logical

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