Are men with cuckold fantasies or who let themselves be willingly cuckolded real men?

[Anonymous]

Cuckoldsex
A sexually inadequate husband who accepts his wife's pussy is her solely property and she alone decides which men she will fuck, even if it means denying her husband. His only access to her pussy is to clean it of the ejaculate of males she chooses to fuck.
Doug has the penis of a young boy and has never given his wife Jill an orgasm. His choice was divorce or be a cuckold. He is now a fully submissive cuckold to Jill.
"Doug has the penis of a young boy and has never given his wife Jill an orgasm. His choice was divorce or be a cuckold. He is now a fully submissive cuckold to Jill."

Cuckold
A submissive husband with a wife who takes on alpha-male lovers whereby the wife's sexual pleasures become the husband's vicarious sexual pleasures and experiences.
"The cuckold husband developed an erection as his imagination ran wild with sexual thoughts during the preparationof drinks for his wife and her new lover"

Cuckold
A man who gains sexual pleasure in the knowledge that his wife has made love or is making love to other men. Cuckolds are usually submissive, often have a small penis, suffer from premature ejaculation, 'enjoy' sexual humiliation and are rarely able to satisfy their wives.
Neville's wife first cuckolded him almost thirty years ago. He could not bring her to orgasm, only has a tiny (3") penis, and my friend, Chris, becamed her lover and moved into our house. For two months, until the affair ended, I slept in the spareroom and listened to her groans and grunts of pleasure and, worst / best of all, calling his name.

[Anonymous]

Well, if people want to do that, then I don't see a problem with it, assuming you're talking about someone who lets someone else have sex with their significant other.

That should at least be acceptable in situations where the guy can't reproduce, but even if he can't, then so what.

I don't see why the term 'real men' is being used either, as it really doesn't determine whether or not he's a man.

People can call the guy all sorts, like weak or submissive, but I don't see how it doesn't make him a 'man'.

It's like me saying some adult female isn't a 'real woman', because she's not slim, with a big ass and big tits or because she can't cook.

Sorry, but I just think of sexist expectations that society places on men, whenever I hear the term.

[bacca400]

Lots of execs that earn $1 million or more are submissives or cucks. Surprised? It all depends on if this cuckholdry works for the people in the relationship.

"Are they real men" is a non-sensical question asked by insecure men who degrade others to make themselves look better. I. e. this is asked by real betas. Real alphas do not have to degrade others to look better, they just are confident in who they are.

[Asker]

No they are not real men hence why they have to hire real men to have sex with their wives.

[SweedyPie]

Ok so. Who the fuck cares? If the man wants to watch other men with his wife or whatever... And she is fine with that and they are happy with their arrangement... Why should I give a fuck? I don't get the obsession with the details of other people's sex lives. Move on.

[AuroraRoseat]

"Real" men is subjective so that entirely depends upon your definition. If it's the fact that they have both the XY chromosomes, then yes. They are. If it's a more personal opinion, than for me I would say that it depends on numerous factors.

[Asker]

My definition of a real man is someone who doesn't have other men screw his partner while he watches. XY chromosomes no longer define what a real man is anymore as that's transphobic.

[AuroraRoseat]

That's something new that I haven't heard of. I wouldn't say that a FtM isn't a male because he lacks the proper chromosomes, but he isn't one biologically. That's just fact and not said with any type of malice. I'll have to research that. But it sounds like you answered your own questioned. I don't care for cuckold relationships but if that's what the couple is into, it's none of my business.

[Asker]

That's called being transphobic. It's ok I'm transphobic to lol

[Herbie_Otch]

@Asker: if your definition of "real man" is someone who doesn't have others Andrew his partner, and a cuckold is someone who does, why would you even bother asking whether they're a "real man?" By your definition, clearly they are not. That seems like an arbitrary way to define what makes a man, since tastes and preferences are totally subjective, but if you're decided, why ask?

[nothingtosee]

I think it's a hot role playing fantasy. I've been the bull before and I enjoyed it. I often fantasize about being the cuck as well.

[Trolloween]

No I don't think so. Not one that could be respected since they don't even respect themselves, I don't know why the man would do this hut moreso how any women could find something so tragic attractive

[HollyTran]

Isn't this like having an open relationship and swinging? I don't know but isn't sex supposed to be enjoyed and is Monogamy an artificial type of relationship? My Girlfriend has had other relationships while we live together - it is just sex. What is the issue? I liked to comment - get over it!

[llcanon]

i am an old timer- it is weakness and it turns the wife or girlfriend into a worthless whore

[OlderAndWiser]

If you want your wife to fuck other guys instead of you, why get married?

[Marinepilot]

OlderAndWiser, Once again you are the voice of reason and common sense. Bravo ! Well done.

[Herbie_Otch]

Why get married? I didn't get married to own my wife's sexuality. I got married because we are fantastic partners who communicate extremely openly and honestly, we love traveling together, we love enjoying music and food and art together, and generally don't like being apart. Marrying her was one of the best decisions I've ever made. We support each other in the pursuit of our goals and career paths, we have beautiful children together and wouldn't want to raise them with anyone else, and we're very happy together. Even our sex life is fine without extra-marital activity, but we very much enjoy exploring this dynamic. For us, it enhances excitement and arousal, and she enjoys variety, sexually speaking. She likes being with women as well as men with a different body type from mine. I am not harmed emotionally by letting her enjoy this. If I was, she would stop. But I want her to get the maximum enjoyment out of life, and she appreciates the freedom. She knows she can do whatever she wants, and will still always have the love and support of the man she chose to be married to. We are happy, secure, more in love than ever after two decades together, and we aren't hurting anyone. Why on Earth SHOULDN'T we be married?

[OlderAndWiser]

@Herbie_Otch If being in a relationship where your wife feels free to fuck other men makes you happy, then – obviously – no one else is going to stand in the way and interfere. If you are happy with that relationship, then you are an exceptional man. . . but not exceptional in the sense of being a better person, just exceptional in the sense of being in an extremely small statistical minority. Most people would look at your relationship and think that it is pathetic and, yes, I understand that you don’t care what other people think, but. . . very few people who read this will envy you.

[Herbie_Otch]

I realize it's not what the majority are into, but it's nowhere near as uncommon as most people assume. Next month we're attending an event at a hotel catering specifically to people who enjoy this lifestyle. It's a large resort style hotel, the entire place was bought out by the event organizers, and it is entirely sold out. And these happen several times a year with this single event promoter alone. There have been articles in the New York Times about the benefits of an open marriage in recent years, and I lack the exp level to link to it, but CNN ran an article in 2018 under the headline: "Cuckolding can be positive for some couples, study says" I've been asked to participate in podcasts that work to dispell misconceptions about this lifestyle choice, and my blog gets far more user feedback from men specifically saying they DO envy the relationship I have work my wife than from men who have anything negative to say about it. It has thousands of followers and I'm one of the smaller ones out there. So again, I am well aware it's not the majority, but it's not a statistically insignificant number. The idea that all these men are somehow not real men is ludicrous, as are statements that they shouldn't be married. Ones marriage has to be exceptionally strong to do this in a healthy way. I'm not telling anyone they should do it, or that their preferences should match mine, I'm simply saying that making assumptions about someone just because they have different tastes or make different decisions about where to set boundaries in their own relationships makes people sound ignorant, intolerant, out-of-touch and silly.

[Miss_Laura]

depend son the guy and how he acts about it, its a factor but not the whole equation

[DinaM]

Why wouldn't he be a "real" man? What, would having cuckold fantasies turn him into a wooden puppet or something?

Actually, that sounds like a kinda cool idea for a story.

[cuckoldloverr]

I would so much repel marrying a woman who thinks like you.

[cuckoldloverr]

sorry... I would love to marry a woman who thinks like you.

[Billlewis]

I love it that nearly a third of the respondents said that guys like us aren't real men:)

[heatherrenee6996]

I would love to have it done. Just waiting for the couple to ask me

[Fluffy5inch]

So you want to be part of Cuckqueaning?

[heatherrenee6996]

I really do. It's such a turn on

[heatherrenee6996]

Oh please and yesss

[Nasty69tyme]

Would you with blackmen and let white clean up

[wankiam]

my ex was a nymphomaniac. no one man could satisfy her.

[sawno]

Yes as they still have all the bodily functions of a man. Cuckolding will say two things about them, they likely have a humiliation fetish and are likely into orgasm denial. Other then that you may not notice anything different about them.

[Evvann]

Of course not, they are cyborg-aliens

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I'm a 'wannabe' cuckold tbh. Outside of the bedroom, I'm successful, and have a soul-crushing amount of responsibilities that go with my work and home life. In the bedroom, the idea of letting go of myself, being her slave, doing what I'm told, nothing more and nothing less... Watching her be satisfied by another man (or men) - and that's the turn on really - her being satisfied, even ravenous is erotic and amazing. She's my wife, my pornstar, and she loves it (in the fantasy). There are women out there who enjoy this life (hotwives), so it's not just one-sided. There's always going to be guys who have bigger dicks, better oral skills, etc.. So why not treat her to the very best? I enjoy being submissive, and cuckoldry turns me on, a lot.

I guess for us who live extremely complicated lives, it's also the simplicity of the role that makes it alluring- there's only one rule: Do what you're told.

[jeffcuck]

So hot

[llcanon]

your a weak beta male. shame on you for being such a weak man

[BeenThereLovedIt]

LOL, yet here you are - reading up on cuckold topics and responding to months-old posts, projecting your own insecurities towards those you think you despise. You are either a closet-cuckold, or your woman is cuckolding you against your will and you are lashing out. Either way that's your problem.

[llcanon]

that is so far from the truth=you have your head shoved up your ass. I advocate against assholes like you and these other worthless cucks and their sick fetish. you sorry bas_____

[BeenThereLovedIt]

@llcanon Keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better :)

[llcanon]

see i advocate against Jagoffs such as you. Your pathetic/. when ever i see anything on that stupid unholy behavior i respond- i suppose you have no idea what a advocate does

[BeenThereLovedIt]

@llcanon So you are basically an anti-american freedom-hating person who tries to bully others online into your world view on what is and isn't acceptable behavior. Got it. In real life, you are probably some loser who can't succeed, can't get laid, and can't get anyone to like you because you are a spineless weasel who only feels powerful when berating everyone else, who ironically is superior to you in every way. I do what I want with my body, and with others who do what they want. It's NOYB and perhaps you should focus on your own issues and shortcomings before trying to call out other people on theirs. Otherwise, if you were to approach me on the street and say those words, I'd punch your lights out and keep walking. After I'm done typing this, I'm definitely going to block you, not because I fear you or your fears of inadequacy, but because you are a waste of time. Think about it, even a degenerate like me won't give you the time of day. I expect to read about you shooting up a mall or bowling alley someday. Loser.

[SngBirdy]

Im fucking destroyed by the amount of people who voted "yes".
Fuck this gay earth

[Reemaa]

<3 i hope to see more real men like you

[olderirishguy]

Yes.. in most cases its a sexual fantasy played out

[Loving_Husband]

My wife's pussy is her property and she decides who gets to enjoy it!

[Ronnie_45]

Mmmm

[llcanon]

@Ronnie_45 loving husband tell he you have the same rights concerning your cock and that u will use it as you see fit and with whomever you choose- she slit your fucking throat

[TheSoundOfSilas]

That's fucking weird but genetics dictate that they still remain men despite their fantasies.

[dublin_sexyeyes0]

Yes they are. In this lifestyle both male n female are secure and happy with each other. There is a huge amount of trust and respect

[llcanon]

that is not even reality. Real life is much different

[kiram]

My wife is the breadwinner and I stay at home and does our daily house hold chores. We don't have any children and we are OK with it. I am not able to satisfy her needs owing to my tiny size and softness. She insists we look out for 'men' for...
Now we are a happy couple, and we feel safe with a group of her male friends always at home. I am often gifted with new clothes (girl's) and told to be in my place. Our life is awesome nd I am enjoying my feminised side.

[Reemaa]

I'm sorry but if you feel like you are female why do you want to be with your wife? Just say i'm gay and i love men.

[llcanon]

a weak man who is not man enough to take care of his own wife- you should not even be married if yiu need a another to fuck your own wife. If i was like that i would hang myself

[NJRIII]

Not real men

[narutoxxx]

All guys have fantasies they can't control. Whether they stay fantasies is up to them. But it doesn't take away from the fact that they are still men or her man.

[llcanon]

you all must be young people because back in the day we would fuck up men who did this to another man