Handsome Black American Male -- Seeking Single White , Fit Female..👍? Where to look?

[Blackmoonrising]

Tall, dark and Handsome man, looking to meet a single, white, fit female! Sounds easy right? Ha-ha... not at all!

First off, I'm not your stereotypical black male. Which is to say that; I am not remotely interested in dating overweight or unhealthily obese white women!

No offense to anyone! It's just that the only time you ever see a black and white couple in public, it's a skinny black guy and a white woman that's at least 2 to 3 times his size! And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that! Except that now, this has become the fixed stereotype to which all or most black men are branded with!

And yeah, there's the skinny white girl that has a fetish for black men and literally makes trophies of them -- one after the other!!!

And the privileged white high school girl that comes from a strong economic background and family, who immerses herself into rap music and the rap culture!

And all these types of white women, from the fat girl to the white girl who makes trophies of black men, are all typical or stereotypical, of the only white girl that'll date a black guy!

So where are the smart, articulate, caring, strong, independent, fit, economically strong white woman, with an open mind, that are tolerant, absolved of prejudice and bigotry. But truly likes the guy, not because he's black. But simply because he's a great human being!

And yes, there are a lot of black men that will not date black women. And it's not because their black! But they have their reasons!!! Mostly, It's because of the way some black girls treat their men..! I personally don't have a black or white fetish. I have a "being with a awesome woman, with a great personality and a wonderful sense of humor -- that isn't trying to kill me fetish"!!! Arguably, there are white men that love dating black women. And that's great! There's someone for everyone!

But to me, like nature: Creation is a sheer act of will -- and so isn't the pursuit of happiness!

[Seinna]

A girl who's attractive, fit, financially independent and white - how will you impress such a woman? It's not easy even for many white guys and majority of people prefer to date within their race so you need to be better than them unless she does have a fetish.

Any woman who dates with the intention of marriage want a man who's at their level financially or above, has similar cultural upbringing and is going to be a good father. At your age you should realise that a woman is not going to consider dating anyone just for a good time.

Unfortunately, the stereotype has it that that's generally not black men. Just like you don't want to date a black woman because of stereotypes, a high quality woman will not want to date someone who is most likely to leave her a single mother than any other race of men. We need stability and seek out men who can provide it to us when we're most vulnerable. If you want it to happen then you have to show that you are not like that and be better than men of her own race, no matter what race it is.

It's not only the women's fault that 70% of black children in US are being raised in single parent households. That's a massive red flag against black guys for any woman with a good head of her shoulders which is what you want. Men having children with multiple women are very uncommon among whites and completely unheard of among Asians. You unfortunately need to work against that and also - high quality women who don't have complexes will not appreciate you putting down other women.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Welcome to G@G. Girlsaskguys is only a site where people as all types of questions, as long as they follow the guidelines, otherwise moderators and admin will take posts down. G@G isn’t a dating app, so there’s not much luck on here unless you stumble across someone unexpectedly. You’re more than welcome to stay and get to know the community and leave some advice for other people. However, if your sole purpose on this site is to find people to date, this isn’t the right place. I’m sorry.

There are plenty of women on dating apps who might fit your criteria, if that’s what you’re asking?

[Anonymous]

you’re not as handsome as you think

[Anonymous]

LMAO

[Anonymous]

"And yes, there are a lot of black men that will not date black women. And it's not because their black! But they have their reasons!!! Mostly, It's because of the way some black girls treat their men..!"
You're stereotyping all black women based off of what? How a few black women you've been around treated you?
You realize there are fit, intelligent, attractive black women out there right? And no, I am not I'm trying to date you, or persuade you to go after black women- your tone is ignorant and very close minded. And I know if I picked up on it, other women may do the same.

Keep in mind, this is not a dating site, so don't expect any serious inquires. You would have much better luck trying at a gym in real life.

[Blackmoonrising]

No. You don't know me. You haven't a clue. Strange, how every women believes that just 1 woman, could change a man. Ha-ha!!! This is almost comical...😅! If anyone's taking being here seriously it's you. So by all means.. get it all off your chest. I'm totally jerking your chain just to get a reaction -- and you fell for the bait... ha-ha!! Now that your all butt hurt. Save your advice and speeches for someone that actually gives a crap...🥴! I'm bored. But there's no shortage of insecure girls for us guys to mess with!!! By the way, do you even think this is the same guy your talking to... am I whit white or black? Am I male or female? You don't have a clue...🤗! message us back when you get triggered again. We'll have you chat with someone else everytime.