Have you ever had sympathy sex with a guy?

Question

Some men have an idea that, when they have been wounded and their pain is visible, some empathetic ladies would be willing, as a measure of their absolute altruism, to have sex with the distraught man as a means of providing some comfort and solace. In the common parlance, it is called a "sympathy fuck." I have never been on the receiving end of such compassion and I don't know anyone who ever admitted to getting such a benefit. Have you ladies ever offered such comfort to a man overwhelmed with grief?

kittykatbrat · Accepted Answer

Vote A = Yes, when I was a "hot mess" I DID have "sympathy sex" with certain men I used to date, was still attracted to and had previously forced myself to walk away from due to their anger and possessiveness.

THEY purposely preyed on my substance/alcohol issues at the time and got me back VERY temporarily by default.

It was ALWAYS a mistake that I knew, even while I was doing it.
Lessons well learnt.

lumos · Accepted Answer

Fuck no. I can give him a pat on the back and a hug but I'm not having sex with him, especially if we're not together.
And if we're together, I'd prefer to wait it out until he feels better. I don't want him to start crying in the middle of sex or whatever.

Azara · Accepted Answer

I thought. SympaThy fuck was taking pity on a guy who really wanted sex with you in particular or really wanted sex on general but was ha inv trouble, but not bc he's sad.. If he / is sad ill talk to him listen to his problems not fuck him lol

ImaSloth · Accepted Answer

I think if any girl had sex with a misfortuned guy it would be because of experimenting, or they like control. When I say misfortuned I don't mean a guy with minor temporary ailments. Going up to a girl and complaining will only result in "Aww" and a dry spot. Or you could be like me and when she asks what happened say "Just a minor injury, nothing I can't handle"

Tdieseler · Accepted Answer

Where do you get these things from? @OlderAndWiser and no... I've heard of it, but im too much of a badass to get it. I've also seen it for a few virgin friends (i had a hand in that) thats like one of the worst sex ever... the premise.. not the act.
and i know its not you... ugh..

CosmicallyCombined · Answer

No, I have never had sympathy sex with a guy and I DEFINITELY never will. My vagina is not some box of tissues for a sad penis. -_-

vishna · Answer

Actually, yes. Do I regret it, hmm, I truly regret little because I think it's a really negative emotion, but would I do it again, no.

DaniaMQ · Answer

Im virgin and I'm, planning to be like that until marriage, but imagine that I am sexually active or whatever, I still wouldn't even think about doing that.

luvstoned4him · Answer

I am not active but I would never do it.

katkittie55 · Answer

No definitely not. Its a turnoff completely.

i1T2daty · Answer

To girls answering affirmative. Today my dog got run over, I found I had terminal disease and the stock market went south on me

Floppy · Answer

I have never had sympathy sex with a guy I don't believe in

chintita · Answer

i would never do that, the only reason i'd have sex willingly is because i find him attractive/sexy and because i *want* to. not because i feel bad for him.

Tomboy_Cool · Answer

I'm a virgin soo.. XD I wouldn't do it still tho sex is meant to be special not for.. takin for granted I don't know what u call it Watever u just said