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How can I build confidence about my big girl body in the nude?

I have decided to do escorting, but the BIGGEST road block thats keeping me from making money is my very low self esteem in my body in the nude. its not even that im big, but i that i dont have the hour glass figure as a big girl, im more block shaped, with a little cuff for a butt, narrow hips broad shoulders a very fat pussy, and huge breasts, but i just dont see a man finding my body attractive. Maybe its because i have been bullied all my life about not having a huge ghetto booty. but how can i gain enough confidence to get pass this insecurity and get this money? its so strange cause i just started escorting tonight and got OVERWHELMED with messages almost over a hundred messages and i said my body type is a big girl. i couldnt keep up with them all, and many were down to pay for sex (i was so shocked). but i can't get past letting a total stranger see my body, i dont think they will like my shape, becaue i dont lol im kinda shaped like this girl.
How can i build confidence about my big girl body in the nude?

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maybe i wasn't clear enough. i like being a chumby girl, my issue is not that im fat but that i am not and hourglass or pear shaped plus size woman. i would never want to be skinny nor muscular i find it unnatractive for a woman, plus i thing a bit of a jiggling body and softer body seems best for sex and just feminine in my eyes. i just want to accept my body shape for what it is since i can't afford plastic surgery just yet.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • No girl you have a great body!!! And any guy who can love a bigger body is going to love yours no matter what you think of it!!! I thought your description was cute though!!! A little cuff for a butt... broad shoulders... big boobs! Haha!! You sound adorable! And a big girl who loves being big and knows it is all the more atractive!!!

    • Honestly I think that if you just make mental notes evry time you see yourself that you look beautiful it would help and maybe fantisy I g about your body tipe specifically... like fantasizing g about a guy loving on your shoulders or just wanting to see you naked for the heck of it...

  • The men who want you will want you for your body. They´re into your type so when you get a call, you know they really want you for your body. Once you actually start doing it, you´ll see that you can really relax and enjoy men getting turned on.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You are in proportion everywhere. If that was a bikini, you would look good on our beach at home. Please do not worry if YOU are happy.

    What does concern me greatly is your choice, "I have decided to do escorting". Read this, and then think about your future. VERY HARD THINKING:

    I was a slut and prostitute? ↗

    • I dont care about serious relationships like that. If i care about a guy i will just lie about it

    • It WILL catch up with you. People just cannot keep their mouthes shut... Your choice.

  • Maybe you should start going to the gym, I know you don't want to change your body but having control of it helps boost confidence. You will be making yourself healthier too (again, not just about losing weight, I mean making your heart and lungs healthier)

  • Although I disagree with this dangerous life choice, but I'm assuming most men wanting your services already know your body type. So it already sounds like you've got a market for it.

    • on the website i just showed my cleavage its so hard to take body shots with a phone. but im about to take some soon

    • Why not be a cam girl? It's a lot safer.

    • because i need money right away. a cam girl can be on camera for 8 hours and make nothing

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  • Have you thought about seeing a therapist?

    • yes i have. why?

    • Because you should see one silly XD

    • i dont think a therapist would help me appreciate my body lol

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  • Are you serious You are quite hot. Don't feel so bad about how you look show off that sexiness. Shoot if I lived near you and you would be an escort I'd be happy to see you Naked and ask for a next time.

    • To accept the way you look just take a couple minutes and look at your self in the mirror and say to your self : this is me, And my body and there is nothing wrong with it and think of all the positive things about you and your body and just put all the bad things off to the side. And make a list of things that you would change and that you wouldn't want to have changed.

  • ... after reading all some of the male comments... brings me back to something i always tell women, lots and lots of more guys are starting to like thicker curvier women... but nooo... they never believe me. they think starving themselves to look like a reject picture from a playboy mag is the way to go... pfft.

    You look fine... but im not a big fan of the direction.

  • My fianceè had the same problem so I forced her to strip naked as soon as she came home at the door. She got pretty comfortable with her body after seeing it everyday for a few months.

  • Fuck that, your body is delicious! I wouldn't mind being a tester of your nudes! Such gorgeous curves and sensuality to you overall. Mmmm you have it all wrong. I'd say you'd have tones of guys calling you up.

  • Yeah this is a bit of a self destructive habit. I can offer pointers but not for use of prostitution sorry

    • ok how about in general. i have not even escorted yet i might coward out. but i still need to learn to be comfortable in the nude in confident

    • I want to help... I do... but with this a possibility... it hurts my heart... ummm is it specific parts of you or?

    • yes like my hips not being the widdest thing on me, my belly ( looks like the lady in the photo), my booty isn't plump enough it looks like the lady in the picture, and i hate my shoulders in arm. i really wish i wasn't so poor on top of being a single mom cause i really wish i could get plastic surgery to feel better and look better

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  • To be in that line of work, you will need to shed 20 pounds. I think your figure underneath the extra weight will be okay.

  • i love big girls the bigger the better and so do many other guys dw about it

  • Sidenote*
    I find your body extreme hot

    Stay as you are, because dont be a copy of something, be an original of yourself

  • so you're a little fat... so what. you still look ok in a bra and panties. my question for you is "what size are your big panties?"

  • I feel like there are other answers for you out there besides escorting.

    How tall are you? Maybe you could be a plus-size model.

    • Im 5'7

  • You can try stripping or lapdancing
    Since you mentioned that you needed quick money, I feel that is a more viable option compared to dieting and working out

  • And what's wrong with her.. I don't normally like larger women despite being huge myself.. but she has some nice curves and not too much ass

    • But in the end you're going to have to let soeguys see you naked... maybe pick a couple of t he supportive ones and show them. But you get a better response than you think

  • Some guys want that. I suggest you find another girl and share a flat or something it's safer that way. Basically don't do it alone!

  • Work out

    • Having said that though i DO think ur pretty sexy. Where are you located? Wanna go out? ;))) muahahaha

  • try being nude, infront of the mirror daily, and practice it.
    but i would advice you to go into a different field rather than escorting

  • I find you very sexy I like all your curves and would have hard time keeping my hands off if you. Your pretty and have a great ass and thighs would be lucky to be with you

    • Agreed.

  • Make porn, that outta help

  • Put some pics of you up on wherever your posting at and if they call... They like what they see... I have a buddy that lives by " she ain't a lady unless she's 280"

    • oh wow lol

    • Or take a few shots and go get paid

    • u mean drink?

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  • If it helps, I think you are sexy and I would love to see you nude

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