I cheated on my husband when I went to vegas and now I have an STD how can I tell him without sounding too hoish. ?

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He found out. He called me a fucken whore. threw all my stuff out the house and kept our kids :'(
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  • Ouch. Hide it. Hope he doesn't find out or you will in for a world of hurt.

    How adventurous is he in the bed room? I know of a wife who cheated and was caught by her husband twice. He started to impose "conditions" as punishment and she accepted those. They joined FetLife.

    Let's just say, his inner dom got loose. Her lust got an out. Still around as a couple last I check.

    • I m on fetlife.

    • Is your husband on FetLife too? Is he interested in going into bdsm relationship with you?

    • No his not.

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  • Show him the pictures of you getting fucked by that guy. Maybe he will get turned on and forgive you.
    Probably not, though.

    • There not pic

    • Forget to take your camera along?

    • Why would i record me cheating?

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  • First off, get him tested as well. You need to see a physician to treat the std. Even incurable STDs have treatments. After the physical needs are met, you need to figure out why you cheated on him. After that you can deal with the relationship.

    • I was drunk

    • every girl's excuse

    • How about I kill you and then just say I was drunk? That cool?

  • Glad he called a spade a spade and threw you out but kept the kids. They'll have better luck with him.

    I suggest you get some therapy and work on being a better human.

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  • Just be honest and tell him, that's the best you can do now. He'll need to get checked by his doctor as well!

  • Next time come to Reno it's cleaner

  • Don’t use anal and oral till you’ve cleared it.

  • Well, you are ho ish so it seems impossible.

  • I don't know what you bloody well expected 🙄 infidelity wouldn't fly in my relationship either & shit would hit the fan.

  • Hey (Insert his name here) You know how when you go to Vegas and gamble, you can either win or lose? Well I gained and I lost..

    Do you want the good news or the bad news first?

    • :/ ill think he be mad

    • I think so too, but that wasn't what you asked.

    • I know :'(

  • There's no other way around it. Just tell him the truth.

  • What happens in Vegans, stays in Veg.. well except STD so that's not helpful.. Yeah I don't think there is a way.

  • Depending on your sex life—

    Scenario 1: you can lie and take your prescriptions.

    Scenario 2: tell him And swallow the humiliation and pray he doesn’t tell everyone around you.

  • You can’t, but know that if you don’t tell him and he catches the STD from you, you will seem more “hoish” than if you confess.

  • That ship has sailed. There is no way you can sugar coat this.

    • :'( ill hide it form him.

    • So you fuck others and then do not tell him the truth. Start the divorce proceedings now.

    • :/ no

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  • Come right and say it

    Dear when I went to Vegas I fucked around with another dude and caught a STD. So you can't fuck me till I get a shot. Because I fucked up

    • In response to update, I would have done the same thing as your husband did.

  • If you have hoed about, then by definition any confession will sound "hoeish". You fucked up, now it's time to pay the piper.

  • I guess it depends on what kind of STD you have?

  • You're a fullout hoe.

  • Hmm, yes you made a mistake but I’m glad you will come clean to your husband about it and it’s very brave of you. Just tell him exactly what happened, this will save many lives

    • I don't think she'll come clean. No remorse or self-reflection seen in any of her comments or in her OP. She'll just re-offend and make more excuses

  • How long have you been married?
    How much of a hoe were you when you met him?

  • you cheated on your freaking husband... now is not the time to sugarcoat shit. now is the time to come clear.

  • It had to be anon

  • Just tell him

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