I cheated on my husband when I went to vegas and now I have an STD how can I tell him without sounding too hoish. ?

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oddwaffle · Accepted Answer

Ouch. Hide it. Hope he doesn't find out or you will in for a world of hurt.

How adventurous is he in the bed room? I know of a wife who cheated and was caught by her husband twice. He started to impose "conditions" as punishment and she accepted those. They joined FetLife.

Let's just say, his inner dom got loose. Her lust got an out. Still around as a couple last I check.

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

Show him the pictures of you getting fucked by that guy. Maybe he will get turned on and forgive you. Probably not, though.

scentoflavender · Accepted Answer

First off, get him tested as well. You need to see a physician to treat the std. Even incurable STDs have treatments. After the physical needs are met, you need to figure out why you cheated on him. After that you can deal with the relationship.

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

Glad he called a spade a spade and threw you out but kept the kids. They'll have better luck with him. I suggest you get some therapy and work on being a better human.

SimpDotOrg · Answer

Just be honest and tell him, that's the best you can do now. He'll need to get checked by his doctor as well!

ohshee · Answer

Next time come to Reno it's cleaner

YOLOIFIC · Answer

Don’t use anal and oral till you’ve cleared it.

spartan55 · Answer

Well, you are ho ish so it seems impossible.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

I don't know what you bloody well expected 🙄 infidelity wouldn't fly in my relationship either & shit would hit the fan.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Hey (Insert his name here) You know how when you go to Vegas and gamble, you can either win or lose? Well I gained and I lost..  Do you want the good news or the bad news first?

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

There's no other way around it. Just tell him the truth.

Soremain · Answer

What happens in Vegans, stays in Veg.. well except STD so that's not helpful.. Yeah I don't think there is a way.

SapioLuna · Answer

Depending on your sex life— Scenario 1: you can lie and take your prescriptions. Scenario 2: tell him And swallow the humiliation and pray he doesn’t tell everyone around you.

RealMarek · Answer

You can’t, but know that if you don’t tell him and he catches the STD from you, you will seem more “hoish” than if you confess.

exitseven · Answer

That ship has sailed. There is no way you can sugar coat this.

humanearth · Answer

Come right and say it  Dear when I went to Vegas I fucked around with another dude and caught a STD. So you can't fuck me till I get a shot. Because I fucked up

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

If you have hoed about, then by definition any confession will sound "hoeish". You fucked up, now it's time to pay the piper.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I guess it depends on what kind of STD you have?

rienna888 · Answer

Hmm, yes you made a mistake but I’m glad you will come clean to your husband about it and it’s very brave of you. Just tell him exactly what happened, this will save many lives