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Sexual Health My wife wants a threesome but I don't think I would feel comfortable with it?
BluCknNgt Xper 2
My wife has told me she's always wanted a threesome but I don't feel comfortable sharing her with others an I being silly?
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15 36it means she already cheated on you
Gotta make my response anon to avoid all the weirdos.
I will never be in a relationship that is not open and does not regularly involve other people. I love having two cocks inside me at the same time. I love watching a guy fuck another girl, preferably while she eats me out. The freedom of seeing whoever you want whenever you want is very important to me. Yes, I can be in a committed relationship where I come home to one specific guy, but when he's not around I need to be free to explore other options.
So to ME it's weird to not want others involved, especially if it increases pleasure.
Depends on what kind of threesome she wants.
I don't like sharing with another guy. On one hand, it feels like a blow to my masculinity that she wants another man. On the other hand, I don't want to touch the other guy, so it's just sex with one person, for me.
With a girl, though?
I do not feel like my masculinity is being challenged by the touch of another woman. I'd be aroused by seeing her with another woman. I don't need to feel jealous of possessive if it's another woman. The biggest determent to a FFM arraignment is if she felt about another woman like I feel about another man: that she wouldn't want to share and her femininity felt threatened.
If she felt that way, I have to respect that, so no threesomes.
If she doesn't feel that way, then FFM is the way to go.
That's just how I'd treat it, in my life. Food for thought.
I wouldn’t want to do it, especially a mmf. Perhaps a dildo with a suction cup for the wall or floor can take the place of a guy. She may want double penetration and this may substitute without the awkwardness and emotional roller coaster. You may want to find out what her desire is as it could be dating other men, cucking you or something else. I would want to know all that before I have kids with her as I might want to move on and divorce.
There’s nothing silly about objecting to such an act. You are right to be concerned.
No, you're not. If you don't feel comfortable with the idea, then don't do it.
But it's effecting our relationship
How exactly?
She seems to be bored with us and isn't into sex the same way the last time she was into it was while we were watching porn of a threesome so it's obviously something that gets her going more than just having me there
Doesn't the idea of sharing her with another man turn you on at all?
Not really we have kids together I don't wanna see her like that just the thought she had guys before me makes me jealous
Mmf or mff
She wants mmf
Oh shit.
Oh not good dude.