If you want to know how to satisfy us, quit worrying about your dick size, and instead step-up your oral/manual stimulation game, and learn how and when to introduce a vibrator or other sex toy to save time and effort.

It's that cynical thing where you feel like everybody is lying to you to spare your feelings and only the people with the most blunt, brutal opinion is the one telling you the truth. There could be a hundred women giving you the old "size doesn't matter" shtick and all it takes is one "size queen" to come along and just ruin your day.
I would think this is something women can absolutely relate to, right? If the questions I see on here are anything to go by, women experience the exact same effect. And women are judged on every facet of their appearance. I've seen so many beautiful girls on this site who were convinced they weren't good enough, that guys secretly wanted a girl with bigger breasts or a bigger butt or a thigh gap or whatever, but are holding back either to be nice or to string them along until someone better comes along.
It's a different manifestation of the same effect. It's easier to tear down people's sense of self worth than to build it up.
Breast size really doesn't matter to me. I like small breasts
You make a very valid point. You'll see it echoed in what some of the men have been saying so far.
I think it's because our culture values dominance and hierarchy. So I think therefore, the top man is one who has bigger and better things right? More $, bigger muscles, flashier car and dicks are symbolic of power and I think it's to other guys a macho, competition, size up thing of being bigger than other men. It's silly, but so is guys getting muscular not for women's attraction but more often to be bigger and badder than other men. I feel the big dick is similar to men wanting to outmatch each other
I think you hit it right on the head here.
yeah I mean I blame these men, but also blame out culture and such cultures just as much if not more. It's compounded and ingrained into boys at a young age, about how real men are stronger tough, stoic, get girls, stronger than other men, etc. So some boys conscious or sub conscious have a deep insecurity but manifests as bravado and such. So guys are busy trying to "look" tougher and be stronger, when it's really a fascade, a mask of masculinity. But in the process instead of growing into a balanced human being, the strong emotions and only the "alpha or supposed alpha traits" are focused on. But in reality I think it stunts maturity and coping with adversities. This can be on the small scale, and unfortunately large scale with what serious stuff that happens and see incidence like recently. Some things are benign, but the mentality does seem interconnected though.
THANK YOU! I say this on every freaking sick size question I answer and still I get told it's bull shit and that women all want to take 12 inch dicks.
I'm so over the dick size question. Because most guys seem to think that's really all that matters. It's always I'm x. x inches, is that enough to please a woman?
I wish I saw more questions asking about what techniques for oral sex a guy could try out on his girl to please her.
I hope the mods are still deleting the bulk of the questions, because when I was a mod, we got about 50 dick size questions a day.
Really that many questions? Although I do have to say that I questioned myself a lot regarding that fact when I was around 16 years old, obviously I didn't know better, so maybe it's the age of the guys posing the questions there? And obviously porn has a great deal to do with those doubts
True. Its not the size of the machine you have but if you know how to use it. Cause accessories are required aka fingers mouth...
Women usually get orgasms during foreplay - when its well performed - and penetration are just a bonus for both
Pretty sad how a lot of guys base their self esteem and worth around their dicks. I barely see any "is my vagina too ___?" questions. It's like that's the only thing they have to offer, when it really isn't.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Very good point. They think penis size is all that matters. It's who are as a person, cleanliness and how you behave in bed that matters.
"decisively shown that ONLY the clitoris actually does the thing we call "orgasm"." that is wrong in many ways.
go educate yourself more.
yes its harder to acheive orgasm from other spots , yes its uncommon. but clit isn't the only spot with nerves that make the woman achieve orgasm. you can easily watch sexologist on youtube called lindsy doe. on channel sexplanation.
Def in that 30%.
Of absolutely no relatability or purpose here...
I have been told by a few women size didn't matter but until I saw Dr. Ruth on TV talking about the subject and she said women didn't need to be penetrated in order to have an orgasm. The penetration was more for man to get & stay aroused so he can ejaculate inside the woman in order to reproduce. It was a call-in show and one caller tried to convince doctor Ruth and she was a different type of woman and she needed someone with a large penis. Ruth replied she was no different from any woman & if she wanted a big dick so she could feel like gutted like deer that was her preference but not a necessity. Then Dr Ruth added if she insisted on keep getting gutted by big penises one day it might lead to medical issues that she might need to have taken care of down the road. Personally I've never had a complaint but I do like lick on woman's vagina & one lady friend said when she starts orgasming that's when I would start wallering in it like a pig in slop. I took that as a compliment.
MlleCake, thank you so much... I get so tired explaining this with the size questions all the time. Maybe we can start saying refer to MlleCake post from 5/21/18 around 2:00 PM
I have a MY TAKE that covers this, and you're always welcome to link to it.
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