Would you have a sexless relationship?
Not for religious reasons but only because your partner doesn't want to be a parent.
Updates:
+1 y
Sexless= no sexual intercourse. No p in the v.
+1 y
Thank you for the opinions. I asked this question because of the increasing amount of men that are anti abortion saying "just dont have sex if you don't want a kid" which it seems like the majority would not be open to a sexless (intercourse-less) relationship.
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What Girls & Guys Said
32 91This form of relationship is called, “friends”. Further, I would NEVER get involved with someone without this being a discussion prior. If this came up after say, marriage, I would seek an immediate annulment.
I could, and I have. But it sucks. I would have a sexless relationship if she wants it, but I wouldn't enjoy it as much.
Absolutely not. Im sorry but sex is a big part of how men and women connect, not just for procreation.. Most men wouldn't be able to do it, and i believe even if they choose not to admit it, most women wouldn't either.
Per your update.. thats why vasectomy's exist, and birth control and condoms and dozens of other contraceptive measures. I know i have never not once had unprotected sex outside of my wife.. Prior to her i always had condoms. And guess what.. I dont have any kids either..
I totally understand, I really don't get the logic of people who say to just not have sex. Its a natural human thing. I think as people develop together in a relationship you get to a point where if contraception does fail then it isn't a big deal.
you're absolutely right!!
If we definitely didn't want kids I would choose a vasectomy for my partner or getting my tubes tied.
Yes, I'd be with my boyfriend even if he were a brain in a jar.
yeah sure. being "friends" is also a form of relationship right? why would i agree not to have sex with anyboy else, if i'm not gonna have sex with her either? xD that's dumb.
I think the description made it pretty clear I was talking about a romantic relationship.
why would i agee not to have sex with anybody else if i'm not gonna have sex with her either?
Committed relationship... But its alright the point has gone gar over your head
i sort of get the feeling that what i said made you feel uncomfortable. what about what i said made you uncomfortable to the point where you wanna think that something went over my head?
No, just not the kind of answer I was looking for. Was a simple yes or no question.
ok. no then. if you weren't interested in the reason, you could just have made a poll.
I was interested in reasoning yours just wasn't super clear and danced around the question a little but thank you for your opinion
if i'm not clear, you can always ask me what is unclear xD no need to tell me that "stuff goes over my head" XD that makes me feel bad, you know.
I apologize that is just what seemed to have happened.
well i'm just always a fan of telling people what i think went over their head instead of just telling them that "something" went over their head. that way they are more likely to feel that someone is trying to understand them than trying to make them feel bad :) thanks for apologizing. i don't hold a grudge for you doing that anyway but it helps me a lot :) if you don't appreciate the kind of opinion i have, that's ok. i'm not forcing it on you.
In this case, wouldn't be normal to use contraception? Why discard sex?
Your partner thinks the best method is abstinence
Why's that? Religion?
No they just don't want to risk the possibility of pregnancy
This question is hypothetical and aimed at those people mostly guys who say to just not have sex in response to their opinion on abortions
Yes, I just didn't follow the innaceptance of other solutions
No, I don't think I could be content in a relationship like that. I like sex too much for it.
Yes if you really love someone, you can.
I'm already in a sexless relationship I'm single with no girlfriend. 😢
you got you... who else do you need? you have the best partner, on vals day you have the perfect date, and you can get off whenever you want lol.
@Tdieseler Thank you. 💞 I made love with my self with the humping method today and it was heavenly and i used my phone to make video of my self while I'm making love to my self and my penis. It was a sexy self love session. 💞
see... there you go. no nags... and afterwards... complete silence... you can watch Bad Boys for Life in peace without someone telling you how beautiful the weather is and that you should take a walk with them.
@Tdieseler LOL.💞
Sure! It's called a "friendship." They've existed for thousands of years.
If we are already in love we will set some ground rules likd a little bit sacrifice from them and little bit from me.
But if it's in the beginning itself probably not
Yeah ofc, I’m asexual
Nope.
No way
You can't do that
And compromise my mental health? No, thanks. I've been there, it really screws your mind.
That sounds very sad and messed up
Change her mind? Challenge accepted!
No. Just use contraception.